"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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this feeling in my chest

i'm posting this here because i dont know where else it could go..

i have this feeling in my chest, it is very very powerful and it seems when I am feeling ti everyone around me is happier, especially women, children and animals, and when i supress it people become "lower"

anyway, I think of it as a neutral feeling, because I wouldn't say it feels bad. Then again my meter for good feelings isnt so great! anyway, when i make the feeling go away, after abvout 1-5 minutes if i've been keeping it long, or 1-20 seconds otherwise, i feel HORRIBLE, and DISGUSTING like a withdrawal

does this mean i should keep trying to make this feeling stronger or lose it due to the pain of not having it?
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dude, I think you should see a consouler for real. If you're feeling this way, you probably have some irrational beliefs that you need help sorting out. If you had a bad flu, you'd go to a doctor right? So if you have strong, negative emotions, you should see someone who is trained in helping you deal with that.
 
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Heres the thing it feels pretty good when its here. As I type im making it grow stronger and stronger.

The bad part is when it goes away its like a void comes up in me there of horrible negativity. I compare this feeling to a drug, except I can control it.

What do you guys think

Please someone who knows about their emotins help me
 
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