"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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this feeling in my chest

i'm posting this here because i dont know where else it could go..

i have this feeling in my chest, it is very very powerful and it seems when I am feeling ti everyone around me is happier, especially women, children and animals, and when i supress it people become "lower"

anyway, I think of it as a neutral feeling, because I wouldn't say it feels bad. Then again my meter for good feelings isnt so great! anyway, when i make the feeling go away, after abvout 1-5 minutes if i've been keeping it long, or 1-20 seconds otherwise, i feel HORRIBLE, and DISGUSTING like a withdrawal

does this mean i should keep trying to make this feeling stronger or lose it due to the pain of not having it?
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dude, I think you should see a consouler for real. If you're feeling this way, you probably have some irrational beliefs that you need help sorting out. If you had a bad flu, you'd go to a doctor right? So if you have strong, negative emotions, you should see someone who is trained in helping you deal with that.
 
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Heres the thing it feels pretty good when its here. As I type im making it grow stronger and stronger.

The bad part is when it goes away its like a void comes up in me there of horrible negativity. I compare this feeling to a drug, except I can control it.

What do you guys think

Please someone who knows about their emotins help me
 
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