"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Emotionally damaged single mums

Robert28

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I have actually recently started another thread about this.

"Does treating woman bad, get you better results"

I have to agree, I see a pattern in many woman who have dedicated the best part of their lives to the man who was an azzhole.

Not just once? But repeatedly! One azzhole ex after another.

Either these woman are lying about the Ex being a douchbag..

Or they actually are azzholes and she found something about that attractive.

I may try this out as an experiment, and play the douchbag, see what results I get lol.

I don't think a good guy stands a chance with these women.
In my experience the good guy stands a short chance with them BUT they always keep that good guy within arms reach to come back to Incase they need something. They will get pissed off when another woman comes snooping around the same good guy they just dumped. I was the “good guy” to this one single mom and it got me nowhere. What she didn’t bet on was even though I liked her a lot I wasn’t going to wait around on her. I went on a couple dates with this new girl and she made me take a pic with her, so I put it up on Facebook 2 weeks after I’d been dumped by the single mom. You talk about rage, that single mom went off on me cause she’s misjudged how in demand I was with other women. She figured since I was decent to her that no other woman wanted me and I had oneitis for her, which I did but I don’t stick around when you kick me to the curb. A lot of women misjudge me because just because I’m nice doesn’t mean I’m stupid and going to sit around worrying about them.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have actually recently started another thread about this.

"Does treating woman bad, get you better results"

I have to agree, I see a pattern in many woman who have dedicated the best part of their lives to the man who was an azzhole.

Not just once? But repeatedly! One azzhole ex after another.

Either these woman are lying about the Ex being a douchbag..

Or they actually are azzholes and she found something about that attractive.

I may try this out as an experiment, and play the douchbag, see what results I get lol.

I don't think a good guy stands a chance with these women.
Test it out for sure and let us know. In my personal experience being the azzhole works sprinkled with a bit of niceness here and there randomly when they deserve it. I have been with women in the past who use to talk about how nice their ex was who gave them everything and their reply was ‘he gave me everything I ever wanted and treated me the best out of everyone but I had to end it with him’ I read something about it to do with the brains wiring and chemistry. Mainly dopamine receptors. At the end of the day apparently it comes down to how you get them addicted so it seems haha.
 
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