I will guide him best I can.
Dude.......the BEST ADVICE you could give your friend is to stay
THE HELL AWAY from women like this. He won't like that advice,but it's the truth.
I'm going to say something....and while it may sound simple,don't let the simplicity of it make it fly over your head.
The type of guy that a woman dates over and over again......that's the type SHE LIKES.
You get that? If a woman dates the same type of guy over and over again,
THAT'S WHAT SHE LIKES. If the past 10 guys she dated were azzholes....then
THAT'S WHAT she likes....she likes azzholes.
What she repeatedly keeps getting involved with is what she likes. So if she dates 9 azzholes in a row,then guy #10 turns out to be a good and decent person,chances are that relationship is going to fall apart
QUICKLY. Reason why is because relationships with a good men ARE NOT NORMAL for her. So she'll either break the relationship up somehow,or cause so much drama and pain in it,that it becomes "normal"....
(Her version of normal),filled with chaos and drama,like her previous relationships with azzholes.
I mean,you already mentioned something about her "crazy ways"...and how he has to "spot the good" in her. Her ways being "crazy" and her being good only showing up
in spots........not to mention you saying the dude is already walking around on eggshells.
Well what kinda of relationship do you predict that will be?
Then you asked this question......
"How does he maintain attraction with her in the long run?" You won't like the answer to that. But since you asked.....
The best way for him to maintain attraction with her.....would be
for him to become an azzhole. Remember what you said about his girl....
"Was speaking to my pal about single mums who have been
EMOTIONALLY AND PHYSICALLY ABUSED in relationships etc eg
BEEN CHEATED ON and
PHYSICALLY HIT by a few ex boyfriends."
If she's been emotionally abused,physically hit,and cheated on,by boyfriend
S (plural)......
that's her "norm" That's what she over and over keeps getting involved with..so that's what
she likes. So for him to maintain long term attraction with her,that's what he
must become.
Yeah...it sucks...but it is what it is.