GlennCoCo
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How would I go about doing this? 
Can anyone give me some examples?
Can anyone give me some examples?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Emotional Roller Coaster?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You can't really MAKE it happen, it just sort of happens. She laughs, she cries, she loves you, she hates you, she misses you, she's jealous, she's confident, she's sorry, she can't wait to see you, she's mad at you, she's super happy. Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!
It's just a result of you doing whatever you want without regard to how she feels about it. If you act however YOU want to act, without trying to make her feel anything, you're bound to make her feel everything.
It's just a result of you doing whatever you want without regard to how she feels about it. If you act however YOU want to act, without trying to make her feel anything, you're bound to make her feel everything.
GlennCoCo
Don Juan
It's who you are, not what you do. I get what your saying now.
Thanks WhtRbt, more input would make this thread worthwhile.
Thanks WhtRbt, more input would make this thread worthwhile.
WhtRbt said:
i act like i want to act(at least i think i do?) and this doesnt work for me half the time! i had one girl tell me i was mysterious unlike most guys she met but yet we never ended up dating or anything because she fell for my friend whos married. anyone have any real life examples of doing this they care to share?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Just date a Borderline Personality Disoreded or Histrionic Personality Disordered broad and you you will get an emotional roller coaster that you will never ever forget and one that will change your whole outlook on life, relationships and yourself. It's a ride that IS worth taking I think because you will become a true cold blooded pimp and really know truth that separated us from the matrix that is LTR and the facade that they present. But be very careful with personality disordered broads, they will make you very upset and WILL break your heart if you get into a serious LTR with them. But in the end everyone comes out the strongest, wisest and most consciously aware men that will know how to judge women of character.
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Vivian Green?! I like that song!
You think, therefore you are.
You think, therefore you are.
I'd like some more input into this too...I called a girl a B!TCH a week ago, then was nice to her saying I was sorry, but that was the only time I apologized--I didnt shower her in attention after that, I just ignored her and gamed her friend--acted like she wasnt there. I thought it was time to be nice again but when I acknowledged her she snapped at me haha...
So I kept talking to her friend only
I noticed her attention towards me shot through the roof though the last time I was with her and her friend..every chance she got she'd try and be snarky with me, even though I wasnt speaking to her. Like, from HB to HB ("Do you hear someone talking" blah blah, etc, immature bullsh*t like that) she'd acknowledge me playfully, but still pretty pissed. w/e thats attraction in my eyes
But can someone pleeease shed more light on the rollercoaster thing? It'd help a huge deal
So I kept talking to her friend only
I noticed her attention towards me shot through the roof though the last time I was with her and her friend..every chance she got she'd try and be snarky with me, even though I wasnt speaking to her. Like, from HB to HB ("Do you hear someone talking" blah blah, etc, immature bullsh*t like that) she'd acknowledge me playfully, but still pretty pissed. w/e thats attraction in my eyes
But can someone pleeease shed more light on the rollercoaster thing? It'd help a huge deal
OMGWTFLMAO
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I hate emotional rollercoasters. Too much drama and that crap gets old fast. It's a lot better to just be unpredictable and spontaneous and keep them guessing. That maintains interest and attraction without creating negatively charged drama. I won't waste my time on some drama queen.
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Think of it this way: an AFC's goal with his girlfriend is to keep her 100% happy. Women don't want to have the same feeling all the time because it's boring. They just want to feel, whether it be happiness, anger, sadness, excitement, etc.
You also don't have to take them on the ride, but let them do it themselves. Put something in their mind and leave the rest to their imagination.
This helps them experience a nice emotional rollercoaster ride.
You also don't have to take them on the ride, but let them do it themselves. Put something in their mind and leave the rest to their imagination.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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try dating a deaf girl, they aint bad, they dont b i t c h much at all...