GlennCoCo
Don Juan
How would I go about doing this? 
Can anyone give me some examples?
Can anyone give me some examples?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Emotional Roller Coaster?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You can't really MAKE it happen, it just sort of happens. She laughs, she cries, she loves you, she hates you, she misses you, she's jealous, she's confident, she's sorry, she can't wait to see you, she's mad at you, she's super happy. Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!
It's just a result of you doing whatever you want without regard to how she feels about it. If you act however YOU want to act, without trying to make her feel anything, you're bound to make her feel everything.
It's just a result of you doing whatever you want without regard to how she feels about it. If you act however YOU want to act, without trying to make her feel anything, you're bound to make her feel everything.
GlennCoCo
Don Juan
It's who you are, not what you do. I get what your saying now.
Thanks WhtRbt, more input would make this thread worthwhile.
Thanks WhtRbt, more input would make this thread worthwhile.
WhtRbt said:
i act like i want to act(at least i think i do?) and this doesnt work for me half the time! i had one girl tell me i was mysterious unlike most guys she met but yet we never ended up dating or anything because she fell for my friend whos married. anyone have any real life examples of doing this they care to share?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Just date a Borderline Personality Disoreded or Histrionic Personality Disordered broad and you you will get an emotional roller coaster that you will never ever forget and one that will change your whole outlook on life, relationships and yourself. It's a ride that IS worth taking I think because you will become a true cold blooded pimp and really know truth that separated us from the matrix that is LTR and the facade that they present. But be very careful with personality disordered broads, they will make you very upset and WILL break your heart if you get into a serious LTR with them. But in the end everyone comes out the strongest, wisest and most consciously aware men that will know how to judge women of character.
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Vivian Green?! I like that song!
You think, therefore you are.
You think, therefore you are.
I'd like some more input into this too...I called a girl a B!TCH a week ago, then was nice to her saying I was sorry, but that was the only time I apologized--I didnt shower her in attention after that, I just ignored her and gamed her friend--acted like she wasnt there. I thought it was time to be nice again but when I acknowledged her she snapped at me haha...
So I kept talking to her friend only
I noticed her attention towards me shot through the roof though the last time I was with her and her friend..every chance she got she'd try and be snarky with me, even though I wasnt speaking to her. Like, from HB to HB ("Do you hear someone talking" blah blah, etc, immature bullsh*t like that) she'd acknowledge me playfully, but still pretty pissed. w/e thats attraction in my eyes
But can someone pleeease shed more light on the rollercoaster thing? It'd help a huge deal
So I kept talking to her friend only
I noticed her attention towards me shot through the roof though the last time I was with her and her friend..every chance she got she'd try and be snarky with me, even though I wasnt speaking to her. Like, from HB to HB ("Do you hear someone talking" blah blah, etc, immature bullsh*t like that) she'd acknowledge me playfully, but still pretty pissed. w/e thats attraction in my eyes
But can someone pleeease shed more light on the rollercoaster thing? It'd help a huge deal
OMGWTFLMAO
Don Juan
I hate emotional rollercoasters. Too much drama and that crap gets old fast. It's a lot better to just be unpredictable and spontaneous and keep them guessing. That maintains interest and attraction without creating negatively charged drama. I won't waste my time on some drama queen.
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Think of it this way: an AFC's goal with his girlfriend is to keep her 100% happy. Women don't want to have the same feeling all the time because it's boring. They just want to feel, whether it be happiness, anger, sadness, excitement, etc.
You also don't have to take them on the ride, but let them do it themselves. Put something in their mind and leave the rest to their imagination.
This helps them experience a nice emotional rollercoaster ride.
You also don't have to take them on the ride, but let them do it themselves. Put something in their mind and leave the rest to their imagination.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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try dating a deaf girl, they aint bad, they dont b i t c h much at all...