“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How important do you all think this is when it comes to dating/attraction?
 

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Women are highly emotional beings. How important do you think it is in understanding and dealing with women?
 

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Women are highly emotional beings. How important do you think it is in understanding and dealing with women?
Very important I'm sure. I'm bad at empathizing and wanted to hear from others
 

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Emotional Intelligence is not really essential for short term flings.

But if you have any long term aspirations, then it's absolutely necessary. The more the better. Of course, it's only one trait out of many that make a well rounded person. Definitely not a shortcut, and definitely not only applicable to creating attraction in ladies.

Being able to read between the lines, or to "read the air" as they say in Japan, is highly dependent on emotional intelligence.

If you were in sales, for example, having more emotional intelligence would be a huge asset, all else equal.

Despite beliefs to the contrary, all humans (not just ladies) are extremely emotional and rarely logical.

We ain't vulcans, that's for sure.
 

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"Emotional intelligence"
It's an oxymoron like 'jumbo shrimp'.

Logic and emotion are not friends.:p
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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"Emotional intelligence"
It's an oxymoron like 'jumbo shrimp'.

Logic and emotion are not friends.:p
That phrase is referring to how well someone can read and express emotions. And it’s describing the intelligence one has with emotions. Hence the ‘-al’ after emotion. Plus, ‘emotion’ was placed before ‘intelligence’. It would have been oxymoronic had that been reversed but it isn’t. Syntax and suffixes are key to determining what this means here. You don’t even have to have prior knowledge about what this is if you understand English very well.
 

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That phrase is referring to how well someone can read and express emotions. And it’s describing the intelligence one has with emotions. Hence the ‘-al’ after emotion. Plus, ‘emotion’ was placed before ‘intelligence’. It would have been oxymoronic had that been reversed but it isn’t. Syntax and suffixes are key to determining what this means here. You don’t even have to have prior knowledge about what this is if you understand English very well.
 
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