Ok.. I've been seeing this girl off and on for 5 months, I'm 23 and shes about to turn 26 this month.....
and because of circumstances beyond our control we're seperating in about two weeks...
anyways... today was all good until I had to pick out something to wear.. I work at Club Med so we have different dress-codes on different nights and whatever.. so I'm in a funky, have fun mood so I'm wearing these black shorts and white T-shirt (its black and white night) and I put on these old-school knee-high socks.. and I think they look kinda funky and fun...
but not her... shes like "no your not wearing those out..."
and I was like "hell yeah! these are sweet!"
so she says "I am not going to dinner with you like that.."
and I was like "ok..."
so I walked down the hall expecting her to realize how dumb it was to argue over what socks I was wearing she would come around...
nope... got sooo mad and stormed off to her room and I didn't see her till later in the bar...
now.... I understand its all about compromise, but I wouldn't reject my girl based on what she was wearing... I may not agree with what she was wearing but ultimatly its up to her... but I wouldn't be so stupid as to waste what limited time we have together based on what other people think of her on what she wears! she says "you look like a fool like that!, and I don't want to be around you..."
so I'm kinda lost.... shes still kinda mad at me... she views it as if I chose wearing the socks over coming to dinner with her... which I can kinda understand... but still... its just freaking socks...
is there any way I can get her to see that we may not agree on everything butnot to get so mad at the small ****??
thanks in advance for any and all replies...
Best,
Jin
and because of circumstances beyond our control we're seperating in about two weeks...
anyways... today was all good until I had to pick out something to wear.. I work at Club Med so we have different dress-codes on different nights and whatever.. so I'm in a funky, have fun mood so I'm wearing these black shorts and white T-shirt (its black and white night) and I put on these old-school knee-high socks.. and I think they look kinda funky and fun...
but not her... shes like "no your not wearing those out..."
and I was like "hell yeah! these are sweet!"
so she says "I am not going to dinner with you like that.."
and I was like "ok..."
so I walked down the hall expecting her to realize how dumb it was to argue over what socks I was wearing she would come around...
nope... got sooo mad and stormed off to her room and I didn't see her till later in the bar...
now.... I understand its all about compromise, but I wouldn't reject my girl based on what she was wearing... I may not agree with what she was wearing but ultimatly its up to her... but I wouldn't be so stupid as to waste what limited time we have together based on what other people think of her on what she wears! she says "you look like a fool like that!, and I don't want to be around you..."
so I'm kinda lost.... shes still kinda mad at me... she views it as if I chose wearing the socks over coming to dinner with her... which I can kinda understand... but still... its just freaking socks...
is there any way I can get her to see that we may not agree on everything butnot to get so mad at the small ****??
thanks in advance for any and all replies...
Best,
Jin