"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Emotional chick.. small question...

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Ok.. I've been seeing this girl off and on for 5 months, I'm 23 and shes about to turn 26 this month.....
and because of circumstances beyond our control we're seperating in about two weeks...

anyways... today was all good until I had to pick out something to wear.. I work at Club Med so we have different dress-codes on different nights and whatever.. so I'm in a funky, have fun mood so I'm wearing these black shorts and white T-shirt (its black and white night) and I put on these old-school knee-high socks.. and I think they look kinda funky and fun...

but not her... shes like "no your not wearing those out..."

and I was like "hell yeah! these are sweet!"

so she says "I am not going to dinner with you like that.."

and I was like "ok..."

so I walked down the hall expecting her to realize how dumb it was to argue over what socks I was wearing she would come around...

nope... got sooo mad and stormed off to her room and I didn't see her till later in the bar...

now.... I understand its all about compromise, but I wouldn't reject my girl based on what she was wearing... I may not agree with what she was wearing but ultimatly its up to her... but I wouldn't be so stupid as to waste what limited time we have together based on what other people think of her on what she wears! she says "you look like a fool like that!, and I don't want to be around you..."

:confused:


so I'm kinda lost.... shes still kinda mad at me... she views it as if I chose wearing the socks over coming to dinner with her... which I can kinda understand... but still... its just freaking socks...

is there any way I can get her to see that we may not agree on everything butnot to get so mad at the small ****??

thanks in advance for any and all replies...

Best,
Jin
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sh|t test ...Trying to control you ..Read bible.
 
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Well if you're separating in two weeks, what's the difference? I take it you mean she is going long distance but not ending the relationship?

Anyway, she doesn't want anyone she knows seeing you like that. She wants to be with a guy that knows how to dress. You should be wearing sandles and no socks with shorts!! Study up Dawg.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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