"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Eminem = Afc
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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ArcBound said:
You're still a kid. You'll grow up someday. Take down your "seed" stained Eminem poster and pick up and read the DJ bible. You could use it.
also real original but my "seed" only goes in a girl. your implying im sucking up to eminem or glorifying him but you come out from your very first post sipping your haterade ****ting all over someone who you don't even know aside from what you see on tv or read up on him.
kingsam
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every time theres a ho-down they think their gilrfriend has been shot...
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guys this thread is retarded !
so what he is a good rapper, how does what ever he do /not do affect you?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Being a DJ means being in control of yourself. Eminem is clearly nowhere close to that. He actually helped boost the careers of the Insane Clown Posse by allowing himself to get sucked into a feud with a group less well known than himself. That's a b!tch move right there. They baited him and he took it. Kudos to ICP on that one.
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You also have to realize that you can grow out of being an AFC. While some girls may use someone like Eminem because of their fame, I'm sure that Eminem is 1000% times more confident with women then he was as a teenager/pre-fame. And that confidence makes him more attractive to women as well.
Knowing that you can get women makes you better with women because you don't worry about the little things like being rejected by women.
This is kind of old but what do you guys think about this? (very interresting)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FZf1IJxGNV0
This is why white people shouldn't rap. Now he can't poke fun at Michael because he's black? No wonder Eminem took shots at boy bands and other soft targets. Besides, who the fvck is Michael "Jew me, Kike me" Jackson to whine about bigotry?Groovy said:
Anyway, to the TS you are looking for confirmation in a piece of art. That's your first problem. Second, the best music is AFC or beta or howeverthefvck. Always has, always will be. It's more emotional and introspective. I don't care how Don Juan you are on the outside, there is a little beta on the inside. Otherwise you aren't human. And the best music is there for you when you are forced to explore that part of you privately.
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Eminem a great lyricist? The best rapper in the world?
So much fail, so little time.
Eminem is a loser. Yes, a rich, famous loser. Just like Bill Gates.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
wait_out
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Case closed
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falconslax89
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Another brilliant post. So true. Yes, a MASSIVE number of male celebs are homosexuals (or go both ways). If you know anything about how that business works you would know why.Joey Too Nice said:
It would stun Middle-America and much of the world if they knew just how prevalent homosexuality is among the stars and so called elites of society. It is rather shocking to say the least.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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He speaks more truth than any of the rest of you. I suppose you still believe that Southern California is filled with beautiful young blue-eyed angels? You see that on tv all the time. The numbers and the facts point to the opposite, but you boys believe what you want to believe.eaglez1177 said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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