"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Eminem = Afc
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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ArcBound said:
You're still a kid. You'll grow up someday. Take down your "seed" stained Eminem poster and pick up and read the DJ bible. You could use it.
also real original but my "seed" only goes in a girl. your implying im sucking up to eminem or glorifying him but you come out from your very first post sipping your haterade ****ting all over someone who you don't even know aside from what you see on tv or read up on him.
kingsam
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every time theres a ho-down they think their gilrfriend has been shot...
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guys this thread is retarded !
so what he is a good rapper, how does what ever he do /not do affect you?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Nexus Polaris
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Being a DJ means being in control of yourself. Eminem is clearly nowhere close to that. He actually helped boost the careers of the Insane Clown Posse by allowing himself to get sucked into a feud with a group less well known than himself. That's a b!tch move right there. They baited him and he took it. Kudos to ICP on that one.
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You also have to realize that you can grow out of being an AFC. While some girls may use someone like Eminem because of their fame, I'm sure that Eminem is 1000% times more confident with women then he was as a teenager/pre-fame. And that confidence makes him more attractive to women as well.
Knowing that you can get women makes you better with women because you don't worry about the little things like being rejected by women.
This is kind of old but what do you guys think about this? (very interresting)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FZf1IJxGNV0
This is why white people shouldn't rap. Now he can't poke fun at Michael because he's black? No wonder Eminem took shots at boy bands and other soft targets. Besides, who the fvck is Michael "Jew me, Kike me" Jackson to whine about bigotry?Groovy said:
Anyway, to the TS you are looking for confirmation in a piece of art. That's your first problem. Second, the best music is AFC or beta or howeverthefvck. Always has, always will be. It's more emotional and introspective. I don't care how Don Juan you are on the outside, there is a little beta on the inside. Otherwise you aren't human. And the best music is there for you when you are forced to explore that part of you privately.
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Eminem a great lyricist? The best rapper in the world?
So much fail, so little time.
Eminem is a loser. Yes, a rich, famous loser. Just like Bill Gates.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
wait_out
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Case closed
falconslax89
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falconslax89
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Another brilliant post. So true. Yes, a MASSIVE number of male celebs are homosexuals (or go both ways). If you know anything about how that business works you would know why.Joey Too Nice said:
It would stun Middle-America and much of the world if they knew just how prevalent homosexuality is among the stars and so called elites of society. It is rather shocking to say the least.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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He speaks more truth than any of the rest of you. I suppose you still believe that Southern California is filled with beautiful young blue-eyed angels? You see that on tv all the time. The numbers and the facts point to the opposite, but you boys believe what you want to believe.eaglez1177 said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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