"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Email....???

acw

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I've got quite an email list goin...and the thought of adding Target Chicks to my list.

My emails are screened for taste...and i usually send out only Funny Clean Jokes, Music, or educational items.

I send one about 1 per week to my group of friends.

Should i Add any Target Chicks to that List?

Is so...why or why not?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I would. Many hot chicks work at Target. Just make sure none of the fat cows sneak on your list.


Cheers!
 

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No. Why not?

You may inadvertently offend a chick with the humor (you send out a joke about a gay midget with cancer and it turns out her cousin is a midget or her brother is gay or that her mother died of cancer, for example, or they just read it the wrong way) and turn her off to you or they may think you have nothing better to do with your time then to email goofy jokes in which case they can peg you as nerdy goofy.

Instead, you should be a mystery to them, you should maintain radio silence so that they get to wondering where you are and what you're doing. You're a busy guy with a full life, you don't have time to email jokes and fill up people's inboxes with junk. You're thinking maybe that they will find you more appealing because you emailed them a chuckle? Save the laughs for when they're with you out somewhere, one of the benefits of actually being with a fun guy like you. You can also then see right there and then how they react. Why sabotage your game just because you want to send out a joke?
 

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Ah ha...there you go...the voice of reason!

Thanks Man...

My original thought was to just ignor them...that's based on experience and others (like yourself).

Right...forget them...make them think i'm too busy to even Clik a button...



Mr. Me said:
No. Why not?

You may inadvertently offend a chick with the humor (you send out a joke about a gay midget with cancer and it turns out her cousin is a midget or her brother is gay or that her mother died of cancer, for example, or they just read it the wrong way) and turn her off to you or they may think you have nothing better to do with your time then to email goofy jokes in which case they can peg you as nerdy goofy.

Instead, you should be a mystery to them, you should maintain radio silence so that they get to wondering where you are and what you're doing. You're a busy guy with a full life, you don't have time to email jokes and fill up people's inboxes with junk. You're thinking maybe that they will find you more appealing because you emailed them a chuckle? Save the laughs for when they're with you out somewhere, one of the benefits of actually being with a fun guy like you. You can also then see right there and then how they react. Why sabotage your game just because you want to send out a joke?
 

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Consider this, too... Forwards are annoying... even the funniest joke email is kinda lame and takes away from your time... I personally dislike them and know many chicks that hate them, too.

I wouldn't do it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'll tell you this: there's a dude I knew who was doing just that: emailing jokes to girls he met and if he got into a topic with some chick he met he'd send out more boring info he dug up about whatever the topic was. Long story short, he was striking out left and right with the girls. One of the reasons was, IMO, because he was hitting them routinely with this kind of stuff instead of getting them to want a date out of him. First thing I told was to stop that and to stop asking for email addresses too. It means crap to get an email address. Get the phone number. Then use that to get the date.
 
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