"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Email....???

acw

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I've got quite an email list goin...and the thought of adding Target Chicks to my list.

My emails are screened for taste...and i usually send out only Funny Clean Jokes, Music, or educational items.

I send one about 1 per week to my group of friends.

Should i Add any Target Chicks to that List?

Is so...why or why not?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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romangod

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I would. Many hot chicks work at Target. Just make sure none of the fat cows sneak on your list.


Cheers!
 

Mr. Me

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No. Why not?

You may inadvertently offend a chick with the humor (you send out a joke about a gay midget with cancer and it turns out her cousin is a midget or her brother is gay or that her mother died of cancer, for example, or they just read it the wrong way) and turn her off to you or they may think you have nothing better to do with your time then to email goofy jokes in which case they can peg you as nerdy goofy.

Instead, you should be a mystery to them, you should maintain radio silence so that they get to wondering where you are and what you're doing. You're a busy guy with a full life, you don't have time to email jokes and fill up people's inboxes with junk. You're thinking maybe that they will find you more appealing because you emailed them a chuckle? Save the laughs for when they're with you out somewhere, one of the benefits of actually being with a fun guy like you. You can also then see right there and then how they react. Why sabotage your game just because you want to send out a joke?
 

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Ah ha...there you go...the voice of reason!

Thanks Man...

My original thought was to just ignor them...that's based on experience and others (like yourself).

Right...forget them...make them think i'm too busy to even Clik a button...



Mr. Me said:
No. Why not?

You may inadvertently offend a chick with the humor (you send out a joke about a gay midget with cancer and it turns out her cousin is a midget or her brother is gay or that her mother died of cancer, for example, or they just read it the wrong way) and turn her off to you or they may think you have nothing better to do with your time then to email goofy jokes in which case they can peg you as nerdy goofy.

Instead, you should be a mystery to them, you should maintain radio silence so that they get to wondering where you are and what you're doing. You're a busy guy with a full life, you don't have time to email jokes and fill up people's inboxes with junk. You're thinking maybe that they will find you more appealing because you emailed them a chuckle? Save the laughs for when they're with you out somewhere, one of the benefits of actually being with a fun guy like you. You can also then see right there and then how they react. Why sabotage your game just because you want to send out a joke?
 

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Consider this, too... Forwards are annoying... even the funniest joke email is kinda lame and takes away from your time... I personally dislike them and know many chicks that hate them, too.

I wouldn't do it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'll tell you this: there's a dude I knew who was doing just that: emailing jokes to girls he met and if he got into a topic with some chick he met he'd send out more boring info he dug up about whatever the topic was. Long story short, he was striking out left and right with the girls. One of the reasons was, IMO, because he was hitting them routinely with this kind of stuff instead of getting them to want a date out of him. First thing I told was to stop that and to stop asking for email addresses too. It means crap to get an email address. Get the phone number. Then use that to get the date.
 
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