"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Email....???

acw

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I've got quite an email list goin...and the thought of adding Target Chicks to my list.

My emails are screened for taste...and i usually send out only Funny Clean Jokes, Music, or educational items.

I send one about 1 per week to my group of friends.

Should i Add any Target Chicks to that List?

Is so...why or why not?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I would. Many hot chicks work at Target. Just make sure none of the fat cows sneak on your list.


Cheers!
 

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No. Why not?

You may inadvertently offend a chick with the humor (you send out a joke about a gay midget with cancer and it turns out her cousin is a midget or her brother is gay or that her mother died of cancer, for example, or they just read it the wrong way) and turn her off to you or they may think you have nothing better to do with your time then to email goofy jokes in which case they can peg you as nerdy goofy.

Instead, you should be a mystery to them, you should maintain radio silence so that they get to wondering where you are and what you're doing. You're a busy guy with a full life, you don't have time to email jokes and fill up people's inboxes with junk. You're thinking maybe that they will find you more appealing because you emailed them a chuckle? Save the laughs for when they're with you out somewhere, one of the benefits of actually being with a fun guy like you. You can also then see right there and then how they react. Why sabotage your game just because you want to send out a joke?
 

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Ah ha...there you go...the voice of reason!

Thanks Man...

My original thought was to just ignor them...that's based on experience and others (like yourself).

Right...forget them...make them think i'm too busy to even Clik a button...



Mr. Me said:
No. Why not?

You may inadvertently offend a chick with the humor (you send out a joke about a gay midget with cancer and it turns out her cousin is a midget or her brother is gay or that her mother died of cancer, for example, or they just read it the wrong way) and turn her off to you or they may think you have nothing better to do with your time then to email goofy jokes in which case they can peg you as nerdy goofy.

Instead, you should be a mystery to them, you should maintain radio silence so that they get to wondering where you are and what you're doing. You're a busy guy with a full life, you don't have time to email jokes and fill up people's inboxes with junk. You're thinking maybe that they will find you more appealing because you emailed them a chuckle? Save the laughs for when they're with you out somewhere, one of the benefits of actually being with a fun guy like you. You can also then see right there and then how they react. Why sabotage your game just because you want to send out a joke?
 

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Consider this, too... Forwards are annoying... even the funniest joke email is kinda lame and takes away from your time... I personally dislike them and know many chicks that hate them, too.

I wouldn't do it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'll tell you this: there's a dude I knew who was doing just that: emailing jokes to girls he met and if he got into a topic with some chick he met he'd send out more boring info he dug up about whatever the topic was. Long story short, he was striking out left and right with the girls. One of the reasons was, IMO, because he was hitting them routinely with this kind of stuff instead of getting them to want a date out of him. First thing I told was to stop that and to stop asking for email addresses too. It means crap to get an email address. Get the phone number. Then use that to get the date.
 
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