"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
- Thread starter crossboss
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MacAvoy
Banned
ER!C L!VE
Master Don Juan
I'm hoping by 'somebodies' you mean a girl's email address. :cheer:crossboss said:
With an email address, you can check if she has a myspace. Just go to myspace and look her up. If she has one, check it out and find out what she's into. Don't mention to her that you looked her up. I've made that mistake before. 50/50 chance I didn't hear from the girl again.
Next, email her and assume the deal. Ask for her number and call her around 9-9:30PM.
I just looked at some of your previous posts. Bro, how old are you, are you in the USA and what is your relationship history? You've asked some odd questions, you typically post one sentance a throw and are obsessed with touching girls and them touching you.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Ur getting MYSPACES links from approaches ??
cmonnnn
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
WC2
Master Don Juan
Kidding.. but really man- you should be laying girls now after all this time. Get some confidence and go out there.
Oh and btw, **** the email. Some on here may say they have had luck with email, but the only thing I've received/sent through email from women were breakups or fights with the ex's.
Email is a low form of communication. It's not personable, and it doesn't show who you are. Next time, grab a number.
WC2
Master Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Anyway, just say your name and to give a call back at your number when they have a chance. They'll call you back if they are interested. Doesn't matter if you leave a message or not. That's over-analyzing at its best.
WC2
Master Don Juan
