How get opinions from people, such as asking for someone's opinion if you are humble? I'd rather not get a white answer lie. I am improving, but I used to have most people be unfriendly towards me at first. If I were to ever ask if, I was humble they'd tell me I am.
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Master Don Juan
I think you're in the clear. If you are extremely egotistical, arrogant, or prideful people WILL let you know. You either are humble, or somewhere down the middle.
I already know I am extremely prideful. I don't take no for an answer. And I ALWAYS have to be right. It's a quality my current girlfriend has told me she hates about me, but has learned to deal with. On the same token, I think she likes playing the passive roll and making me think I'm right all the time. I guess I've just been used to having people do this my whole life, and I got used to it. But back to the issue at hand, I have been told this by many people. So I think if you're arrogant, people would let you know.
Why the sudden interest anyway? Did a girl say you have a big head today or something?
I already know I am extremely prideful. I don't take no for an answer. And I ALWAYS have to be right. It's a quality my current girlfriend has told me she hates about me, but has learned to deal with. On the same token, I think she likes playing the passive roll and making me think I'm right all the time. I guess I've just been used to having people do this my whole life, and I got used to it. But back to the issue at hand, I have been told this by many people. So I think if you're arrogant, people would let you know.
Why the sudden interest anyway? Did a girl say you have a big head today or something?
A couple of months ago, I was asking for advice on why strangers were unfriendly to me at first, why less good looking guys were ok. I told them I am extremely good looking and I expected people to be friendly. Eventually, they told me the fact that I assumed rich good looking people are automatically liked, was false. The reason why people were unfriendly towards me was my ego.
Since then I have been working on it.
Since then I have been working on it.
DjVita
Don Juan
ego as in having an arrogant aura aronud you? yes, people are turned off bythatcrossboss said:
its good to be proud of yourslef, not full of yourself
thats why i hate PC HBs, arrogance...i go for more "huble" chicks (ironic huh?
)"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.