How get opinions from people, such as asking for someone's opinion if you are humble? I'd rather not get a white answer lie. I am improving, but I used to have most people be unfriendly towards me at first. If I were to ever ask if, I was humble they'd tell me I am.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Ego
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Scars
Master Don Juan
I think you're in the clear. If you are extremely egotistical, arrogant, or prideful people WILL let you know. You either are humble, or somewhere down the middle.
I already know I am extremely prideful. I don't take no for an answer. And I ALWAYS have to be right. It's a quality my current girlfriend has told me she hates about me, but has learned to deal with. On the same token, I think she likes playing the passive roll and making me think I'm right all the time. I guess I've just been used to having people do this my whole life, and I got used to it. But back to the issue at hand, I have been told this by many people. So I think if you're arrogant, people would let you know.
Why the sudden interest anyway? Did a girl say you have a big head today or something?
I already know I am extremely prideful. I don't take no for an answer. And I ALWAYS have to be right. It's a quality my current girlfriend has told me she hates about me, but has learned to deal with. On the same token, I think she likes playing the passive roll and making me think I'm right all the time. I guess I've just been used to having people do this my whole life, and I got used to it. But back to the issue at hand, I have been told this by many people. So I think if you're arrogant, people would let you know.
Why the sudden interest anyway? Did a girl say you have a big head today or something?
A couple of months ago, I was asking for advice on why strangers were unfriendly to me at first, why less good looking guys were ok. I told them I am extremely good looking and I expected people to be friendly. Eventually, they told me the fact that I assumed rich good looking people are automatically liked, was false. The reason why people were unfriendly towards me was my ego.
Since then I have been working on it.
Since then I have been working on it.
DjVita
Don Juan
ego as in having an arrogant aura aronud you? yes, people are turned off bythatcrossboss said:
its good to be proud of yourslef, not full of yourself
thats why i hate PC HBs, arrogance...i go for more "huble" chicks (ironic huh?
)"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.