“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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All of this effort, I see, wasted on learning about women.
If people used that energy to make a better life for themselves and learn about who they are and how they can forge a full and rich life, instead of trying learn about women, those people would find a true happiness inside of themselves that no woman could ever offer.
Think about it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I know I think about life more than I do about women...

Do you know what people tell me?

They tell me to go out and pick up more women.
 

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Stackthestyles said:
I know I think about life more than I do about women...

Do you know what people tell me?

They tell me to go out and pick up more women.
As long as the women aren't what drives you in life.
More power to ya. =P
 
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lol, but they avoid my questions about life, and tell me to focus on women.

It gets frustrating.
 

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A "full rich life" invariably includes women and lots of them. Face it, you wouldn't be here if you didn't think the same.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Stackthestyles said:
lol, but they avoid my questions about life, and tell me to focus on women.

It gets frustrating.
Well here's coming from a man who believes in forging his own destiny by living life to it's fullest of his own accord.
What questions about life do you have? Lets hear them!
 
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lol, funny thing, I have a problem.

I live my life by asking questions... serious, my friends rarely ever complain about me asking questions... When I talk straight to them, I can sense that they know something is missing... Probably because of me saying their name before asking them a question, but that is something else to think of entirely.

My questions about life, come up in spurts. The hardest questions come in huge rushes, and I can't stop and remember them, they are just a flurry in my mind. I would be wetting my panties if I was a girl to what I think about... It's a form of psychosis... a form that nobody can help me with, because there is nothing really 'wrong' with me, other than I am not all 'right' If you get what I mean.

My question about life, usually revolve around, "How do I ask this question" I begin to wonder about the emotions of asking questions, and how the emotions are going to 'cloud people's judgements' and I step back, unsure of what to do. I than go back to the question at hand, and think, which emotion am I thinking of.

My biggest question, is, "how do I ask a question" "Why did I ask that question" "When should I ask the question" "What should I do, before I ask a question" "How do I make this into a question"
 

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Stackthestyles said:
lol, funny thing, I have a problem.

I live my life by asking questions... serious, my friends rarely ever complain about me asking questions... When I talk straight to them, I can sense that they know something is missing... Probably because of me saying their name before asking them a question, but that is something else to think of entirely.

My questions about life, come up in spurts. The hardest questions come in huge rushes, and I can't stop and remember them, they are just a flurry in my mind. I would be wetting my panties if I was a girl to what I think about... It's a form of psychosis... a form that nobody can help me with, because there is nothing really 'wrong' with me, other than I am not all 'right' If you get what I mean.

My question about life, usually revolve around, "How do I ask this question" I begin to wonder about the emotions of asking questions, and how the emotions are going to 'cloud people's judgements' and I step back, unsure of what to do. I than go back to the question at hand, and think, which emotion am I thinking of.

My biggest question, is, "how do I ask a question" "Why did I ask that question" "When should I ask the question" "What should I do, before I ask a question" "How do I make this into a question"
This is actually a fairly typical problem, yet better left for 1 on 1 discussing. Public forums like this rip apart personal opinions like paper.
If you want some opinions and advice, get in touch with me.
[email protected]
Email / Msn Contact info.
Keep it real~
 

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CrystalGem said:
All of this effort, I see, wasted on learning about women.
If people used that energy to make a better life for themselves and learn about who they are and how they can forge a full and rich life, instead of trying learn about women, those people would find a true happiness inside of themselves that no woman could ever offer.
Think about it.
This is sticky-worthy!! :) Not to mention that every MINUTE spent improving your life will save you HOURS of pick-up & seduction.
 
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CrystalGem said:
This is actually a fairly typical problem, yet better left for 1 on 1 discussing. Public forums like this rip apart personal opinions like paper.
If you want some opinions and advice, get in touch with me.
[email protected]
Email / Msn Contact info.
Keep it real~
I'll add you... tomorrow or on Monday.

Public forums allow for a far greater spread of feelings and opinions. I have learned what to respond to, maybe not the best way, but I can avoid the reasoning that doesn't suit my style. Perhaps there is a way to do things better, but I don't think private discussions re the way.

IOW public forums aren't effective at ripping apart my personal opinions, they are effective at supporting and strengthening my opinions.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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