"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Effort in Life

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All of this effort, I see, wasted on learning about women.
If people used that energy to make a better life for themselves and learn about who they are and how they can forge a full and rich life, instead of trying learn about women, those people would find a true happiness inside of themselves that no woman could ever offer.
Think about it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I know I think about life more than I do about women...

Do you know what people tell me?

They tell me to go out and pick up more women.
 

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Stackthestyles said:
I know I think about life more than I do about women...

Do you know what people tell me?

They tell me to go out and pick up more women.
As long as the women aren't what drives you in life.
More power to ya. =P
 
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lol, but they avoid my questions about life, and tell me to focus on women.

It gets frustrating.
 

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A "full rich life" invariably includes women and lots of them. Face it, you wouldn't be here if you didn't think the same.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Stackthestyles said:
lol, but they avoid my questions about life, and tell me to focus on women.

It gets frustrating.
Well here's coming from a man who believes in forging his own destiny by living life to it's fullest of his own accord.
What questions about life do you have? Lets hear them!
 
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lol, funny thing, I have a problem.

I live my life by asking questions... serious, my friends rarely ever complain about me asking questions... When I talk straight to them, I can sense that they know something is missing... Probably because of me saying their name before asking them a question, but that is something else to think of entirely.

My questions about life, come up in spurts. The hardest questions come in huge rushes, and I can't stop and remember them, they are just a flurry in my mind. I would be wetting my panties if I was a girl to what I think about... It's a form of psychosis... a form that nobody can help me with, because there is nothing really 'wrong' with me, other than I am not all 'right' If you get what I mean.

My question about life, usually revolve around, "How do I ask this question" I begin to wonder about the emotions of asking questions, and how the emotions are going to 'cloud people's judgements' and I step back, unsure of what to do. I than go back to the question at hand, and think, which emotion am I thinking of.

My biggest question, is, "how do I ask a question" "Why did I ask that question" "When should I ask the question" "What should I do, before I ask a question" "How do I make this into a question"
 

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Stackthestyles said:
lol, funny thing, I have a problem.

I live my life by asking questions... serious, my friends rarely ever complain about me asking questions... When I talk straight to them, I can sense that they know something is missing... Probably because of me saying their name before asking them a question, but that is something else to think of entirely.

My questions about life, come up in spurts. The hardest questions come in huge rushes, and I can't stop and remember them, they are just a flurry in my mind. I would be wetting my panties if I was a girl to what I think about... It's a form of psychosis... a form that nobody can help me with, because there is nothing really 'wrong' with me, other than I am not all 'right' If you get what I mean.

My question about life, usually revolve around, "How do I ask this question" I begin to wonder about the emotions of asking questions, and how the emotions are going to 'cloud people's judgements' and I step back, unsure of what to do. I than go back to the question at hand, and think, which emotion am I thinking of.

My biggest question, is, "how do I ask a question" "Why did I ask that question" "When should I ask the question" "What should I do, before I ask a question" "How do I make this into a question"
This is actually a fairly typical problem, yet better left for 1 on 1 discussing. Public forums like this rip apart personal opinions like paper.
If you want some opinions and advice, get in touch with me.
[email protected]
Email / Msn Contact info.
Keep it real~
 

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CrystalGem said:
All of this effort, I see, wasted on learning about women.
If people used that energy to make a better life for themselves and learn about who they are and how they can forge a full and rich life, instead of trying learn about women, those people would find a true happiness inside of themselves that no woman could ever offer.
Think about it.
This is sticky-worthy!! :) Not to mention that every MINUTE spent improving your life will save you HOURS of pick-up & seduction.
 
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CrystalGem said:
This is actually a fairly typical problem, yet better left for 1 on 1 discussing. Public forums like this rip apart personal opinions like paper.
If you want some opinions and advice, get in touch with me.
[email protected]
Email / Msn Contact info.
Keep it real~
I'll add you... tomorrow or on Monday.

Public forums allow for a far greater spread of feelings and opinions. I have learned what to respond to, maybe not the best way, but I can avoid the reasoning that doesn't suit my style. Perhaps there is a way to do things better, but I don't think private discussions re the way.

IOW public forums aren't effective at ripping apart my personal opinions, they are effective at supporting and strengthening my opinions.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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