Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Effort in Life

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All of this effort, I see, wasted on learning about women.
If people used that energy to make a better life for themselves and learn about who they are and how they can forge a full and rich life, instead of trying learn about women, those people would find a true happiness inside of themselves that no woman could ever offer.
Think about it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I know I think about life more than I do about women...

Do you know what people tell me?

They tell me to go out and pick up more women.
 

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Stackthestyles said:
I know I think about life more than I do about women...

Do you know what people tell me?

They tell me to go out and pick up more women.
As long as the women aren't what drives you in life.
More power to ya. =P
 
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lol, but they avoid my questions about life, and tell me to focus on women.

It gets frustrating.
 

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A "full rich life" invariably includes women and lots of them. Face it, you wouldn't be here if you didn't think the same.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Stackthestyles said:
lol, but they avoid my questions about life, and tell me to focus on women.

It gets frustrating.
Well here's coming from a man who believes in forging his own destiny by living life to it's fullest of his own accord.
What questions about life do you have? Lets hear them!
 
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lol, funny thing, I have a problem.

I live my life by asking questions... serious, my friends rarely ever complain about me asking questions... When I talk straight to them, I can sense that they know something is missing... Probably because of me saying their name before asking them a question, but that is something else to think of entirely.

My questions about life, come up in spurts. The hardest questions come in huge rushes, and I can't stop and remember them, they are just a flurry in my mind. I would be wetting my panties if I was a girl to what I think about... It's a form of psychosis... a form that nobody can help me with, because there is nothing really 'wrong' with me, other than I am not all 'right' If you get what I mean.

My question about life, usually revolve around, "How do I ask this question" I begin to wonder about the emotions of asking questions, and how the emotions are going to 'cloud people's judgements' and I step back, unsure of what to do. I than go back to the question at hand, and think, which emotion am I thinking of.

My biggest question, is, "how do I ask a question" "Why did I ask that question" "When should I ask the question" "What should I do, before I ask a question" "How do I make this into a question"
 

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Stackthestyles said:
lol, funny thing, I have a problem.

I live my life by asking questions... serious, my friends rarely ever complain about me asking questions... When I talk straight to them, I can sense that they know something is missing... Probably because of me saying their name before asking them a question, but that is something else to think of entirely.

My questions about life, come up in spurts. The hardest questions come in huge rushes, and I can't stop and remember them, they are just a flurry in my mind. I would be wetting my panties if I was a girl to what I think about... It's a form of psychosis... a form that nobody can help me with, because there is nothing really 'wrong' with me, other than I am not all 'right' If you get what I mean.

My question about life, usually revolve around, "How do I ask this question" I begin to wonder about the emotions of asking questions, and how the emotions are going to 'cloud people's judgements' and I step back, unsure of what to do. I than go back to the question at hand, and think, which emotion am I thinking of.

My biggest question, is, "how do I ask a question" "Why did I ask that question" "When should I ask the question" "What should I do, before I ask a question" "How do I make this into a question"
This is actually a fairly typical problem, yet better left for 1 on 1 discussing. Public forums like this rip apart personal opinions like paper.
If you want some opinions and advice, get in touch with me.
[email protected]
Email / Msn Contact info.
Keep it real~
 

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CrystalGem said:
All of this effort, I see, wasted on learning about women.
If people used that energy to make a better life for themselves and learn about who they are and how they can forge a full and rich life, instead of trying learn about women, those people would find a true happiness inside of themselves that no woman could ever offer.
Think about it.
This is sticky-worthy!! :) Not to mention that every MINUTE spent improving your life will save you HOURS of pick-up & seduction.
 
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CrystalGem said:
This is actually a fairly typical problem, yet better left for 1 on 1 discussing. Public forums like this rip apart personal opinions like paper.
If you want some opinions and advice, get in touch with me.
[email protected]
Email / Msn Contact info.
Keep it real~
I'll add you... tomorrow or on Monday.

Public forums allow for a far greater spread of feelings and opinions. I have learned what to respond to, maybe not the best way, but I can avoid the reasoning that doesn't suit my style. Perhaps there is a way to do things better, but I don't think private discussions re the way.

IOW public forums aren't effective at ripping apart my personal opinions, they are effective at supporting and strengthening my opinions.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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