"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Education Difference OK?

LeonSK

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I'm about to get a master degree from a well-know university. She only has an associate degree.

Met her at a bar and we've been dating for a month. Everything seems great! We really like each other.

I'm just wondering would this education difference cause problems in a long-term relationship or even marriage situation. Any opinion?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LeonSK

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BTW, she's a 9+/10 IMO...
 

hudpes

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Anything that bothers someone can become a problem. If it bothers neither of you, no problem.
 

Eph

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Who cares what degrees either of you have? Hint: the majority don't. My IT instructor said something very true today: No one cares what you know [or have], they care about how you use what you know [or have]. Don't let your master's degree go to your head (i.e don't get a superiority complex), because she'll eventually come to see you as an a$$hole, who thinks he's better than everyone. And that is not attractive to women at all, nor is it something a high-value male does.
 

El Payaso

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You shouldn't ask us. Does it bother you? If it does, then you shouldn't sell anything long term with her.

I think education can definitely have av impact on a relationship. The fact is she just won't have the same goals in life like you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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