"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Education Difference OK?

LeonSK

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I'm about to get a master degree from a well-know university. She only has an associate degree.

Met her at a bar and we've been dating for a month. Everything seems great! We really like each other.

I'm just wondering would this education difference cause problems in a long-term relationship or even marriage situation. Any opinion?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LeonSK

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BTW, she's a 9+/10 IMO...
 

hudpes

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Anything that bothers someone can become a problem. If it bothers neither of you, no problem.
 

Eph

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Who cares what degrees either of you have? Hint: the majority don't. My IT instructor said something very true today: No one cares what you know [or have], they care about how you use what you know [or have]. Don't let your master's degree go to your head (i.e don't get a superiority complex), because she'll eventually come to see you as an a$$hole, who thinks he's better than everyone. And that is not attractive to women at all, nor is it something a high-value male does.
 

El Payaso

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You shouldn't ask us. Does it bother you? If it does, then you shouldn't sell anything long term with her.

I think education can definitely have av impact on a relationship. The fact is she just won't have the same goals in life like you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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