"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Education Difference OK?

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I'm about to get a master degree from a well-know university. She only has an associate degree.

Met her at a bar and we've been dating for a month. Everything seems great! We really like each other.

I'm just wondering would this education difference cause problems in a long-term relationship or even marriage situation. Any opinion?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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LeonSK

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BTW, she's a 9+/10 IMO...
 

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Anything that bothers someone can become a problem. If it bothers neither of you, no problem.
 

Eph

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Who cares what degrees either of you have? Hint: the majority don't. My IT instructor said something very true today: No one cares what you know [or have], they care about how you use what you know [or have]. Don't let your master's degree go to your head (i.e don't get a superiority complex), because she'll eventually come to see you as an a$$hole, who thinks he's better than everyone. And that is not attractive to women at all, nor is it something a high-value male does.
 

El Payaso

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You shouldn't ask us. Does it bother you? If it does, then you shouldn't sell anything long term with her.

I think education can definitely have av impact on a relationship. The fact is she just won't have the same goals in life like you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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