"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Edging

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This has been said here and there on this site under the masturbation threads, but I want to reinforce it, mainly because for me, it works big time. What i'm talking about is "edging". You start your day by starting to jack off and right before you ejaculate, you stop. You don't ejaculate, you "edge".

Go out for your day and tell me things don't godifferent in a good way. I guess I must of looked better, I felt "alpha", got eye contact from tons of girls, I even got hit on by some older chick. She asked me what college I go to and what I was doing the rest of the day and i'm like "wtf college, i'm in high school". And then she asks if i'm 18 and i'm like nope. If this chick had longer hair, i'd be all over her. Damn always get attention from the ones with gross short hair, oh well working on that.

Anyway....edge, try it for yourself.:up:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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WoW, I tried "edging". Top Models and celebs hit on me all the time now! It is like a charm...:up:
 

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ChrizZ said:
WoW, I tried "edging". Top Models and celebs hit on me all the time now! It is like a charm...:up:
Sarcasm? Mocking me possibly?
 

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Black Circle said:
This has been said here and there on this site under the masturbation threads, but I want to reinforce it, mainly because for me, it works big time. What i'm talking about is "edging". You start your day by starting to jack off and right before you ejaculate, you stop. You don't ejaculate, you "edge".

Go out for your day and tell me things don't godifferent in a good way. I guess I must of looked better, I felt "alpha", got eye contact from tons of girls, I even got hit on by some older chick. She asked me what college I go to and what I was doing the rest of the day and i'm like "wtf college, i'm in high school". And then she asks if i'm 18 and i'm like nope. If this chick had longer hair, i'd be all over her. Damn always get attention from the ones with gross short hair, oh well working on that.

Anyway....edge, try it for yourself.:up:
Sarcasm? A joke?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ace of Flames said:
Are you kidding? Half the guys on this board wouldn't be able to stop themselves in time.
Well then that sucks for them. When i'm going, I want to bust so bad, but I know that if I do, i'm gonna be a shy little uncomfortable bit.h the whole day and be a total pussie. You make the choice.
 

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/\its all in your mind man...if ejaculating really made u feel insecure then why doesnt it affect people who get laid all the time. its the same thing, only u wanna tell people about the real thing and not masturbation haha
 

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I usually feel a surge of confidence after I've gotten laid. I'm ready to jump over a fvcking building.
 

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....seriously?..

Not jacking off will make you more confident?

Hey man whatever creams your twinkie.

:)

-SCF
 

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I havent beat off in about a week. And I was so intense yesterday playing football. I usually go half ass when I play with my friends. I was so angry and was going nuts lol.


Na but I'm much more confident around women too.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sorry, I tried that it works for me but I can only stand the pain of blue balls for so long. But Im like freakin peter north just wackin' and no release would be murder for me.
 

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Hmmm, if you start jacking off a little and just get it set and not go for so long, you won't have blue balls.

I don't know about u guys, but this is in a sense a confidence booster shot and all of you are pussies going against it. Psh, I "edged" today again and had girls talking to me all day out of nowhere and I wasn't shy or svit like that. This is good.

Oh and yea it is all in my head is what it comes down to, ejaculating during sex would be viewed in your head as a victory as jacking off wouldn't. Push comes to shove, this has been working for me. Only trying to help.
 

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I tried it today. I didn't feel more confidence, but I was able to talk to a girl from one of my classes a little bit. Although, as usual, my ears were burning up. It always happens. That, or my face, or both.
 

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Black Circle said:
This has been said here and there on this site under the masturbation threads, but I want to reinforce it, mainly because for me, it works big time. What i'm talking about is "edging". You start your day by starting to jack off and right before you ejaculate, you stop. You don't ejaculate, you "edge".

Go out for your day and tell me things don't godifferent in a good way. I guess I must of looked better, I felt "alpha", got eye contact from tons of girls, I even got hit on by some older chick. She asked me what college I go to and what I was doing the rest of the day and i'm like "wtf college, i'm in high school". And then she asks if i'm 18 and i'm like nope. If this chick had longer hair, i'd be all over her. Damn always get attention from the ones with gross short hair, oh well working on that.

Anyway....edge, try it for yourself.:up:
Dude, I have tried this **** before, it works :rockon: .
I felt strong and secure, and much more relaxed than I am sometimes. I recommend doing this in the morning. I also think its mostly all "in your head", but it works.
 

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Dude, I have tried this **** before, it works :rockon: .
I felt strong and secure, and much more relaxed than I am sometimes. I recommend doing this in the morning. I also think its mostly all "in your head", but it works.
exactly:rockon:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Black Circle said:
Hmmm, if you start jacking off a little and just get it set and not go for so long, you won't have blue balls.

I don't know about u guys, but this is in a sense a confidence booster shot and all of you are pussies going against it. Psh, I "edged" today again and had girls talking to me all day out of nowhere and I wasn't shy or svit like that. This is good.

Oh and yea it is all in my head is what it comes down to, ejaculating during sex would be viewed in your head as a victory as jacking off wouldn't. Push comes to shove, this has been working for me. Only trying to help.
wutever works for u man. not gonna stop u from doin ur thing....but jus cus i dont hav to use little tricks like this to get my confidence up doesnt make me a pu$$y. if u cant feel good about yourself without relying on "edging" then u mite hav a problem

ill try this out tomorrow tho, jus to see if it works
 

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I don't think this would be such a good idea. Considering you can get really bad blue balls from doing that. And I've had it before.. and it sucks. You can't just start to jerk, then stop and forget, once you start the scemin wants out bro.. ahaha.
 

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all I can say is it works for me and I was just sharing it, if it works, great, all the power to you.
 

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It works. Problem is that when you DO get laid, you'll *** in 2 seconds :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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