"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This has been said here and there on this site under the masturbation threads, but I want to reinforce it, mainly because for me, it works big time. What i'm talking about is "edging". You start your day by starting to jack off and right before you ejaculate, you stop. You don't ejaculate, you "edge".

Go out for your day and tell me things don't godifferent in a good way. I guess I must of looked better, I felt "alpha", got eye contact from tons of girls, I even got hit on by some older chick. She asked me what college I go to and what I was doing the rest of the day and i'm like "wtf college, i'm in high school". And then she asks if i'm 18 and i'm like nope. If this chick had longer hair, i'd be all over her. Damn always get attention from the ones with gross short hair, oh well working on that.

Anyway....edge, try it for yourself.:up:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WoW, I tried "edging". Top Models and celebs hit on me all the time now! It is like a charm...:up:
 

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ChrizZ said:
WoW, I tried "edging". Top Models and celebs hit on me all the time now! It is like a charm...:up:
Sarcasm? Mocking me possibly?
 

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Black Circle said:
This has been said here and there on this site under the masturbation threads, but I want to reinforce it, mainly because for me, it works big time. What i'm talking about is "edging". You start your day by starting to jack off and right before you ejaculate, you stop. You don't ejaculate, you "edge".

Go out for your day and tell me things don't godifferent in a good way. I guess I must of looked better, I felt "alpha", got eye contact from tons of girls, I even got hit on by some older chick. She asked me what college I go to and what I was doing the rest of the day and i'm like "wtf college, i'm in high school". And then she asks if i'm 18 and i'm like nope. If this chick had longer hair, i'd be all over her. Damn always get attention from the ones with gross short hair, oh well working on that.

Anyway....edge, try it for yourself.:up:
Sarcasm? A joke?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ace of Flames said:
Are you kidding? Half the guys on this board wouldn't be able to stop themselves in time.
Well then that sucks for them. When i'm going, I want to bust so bad, but I know that if I do, i'm gonna be a shy little uncomfortable bit.h the whole day and be a total pussie. You make the choice.
 

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/\its all in your mind man...if ejaculating really made u feel insecure then why doesnt it affect people who get laid all the time. its the same thing, only u wanna tell people about the real thing and not masturbation haha
 

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I usually feel a surge of confidence after I've gotten laid. I'm ready to jump over a fvcking building.
 

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....seriously?..

Not jacking off will make you more confident?

Hey man whatever creams your twinkie.

:)

-SCF
 

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I havent beat off in about a week. And I was so intense yesterday playing football. I usually go half ass when I play with my friends. I was so angry and was going nuts lol.


Na but I'm much more confident around women too.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sorry, I tried that it works for me but I can only stand the pain of blue balls for so long. But Im like freakin peter north just wackin' and no release would be murder for me.
 

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Hmmm, if you start jacking off a little and just get it set and not go for so long, you won't have blue balls.

I don't know about u guys, but this is in a sense a confidence booster shot and all of you are pussies going against it. Psh, I "edged" today again and had girls talking to me all day out of nowhere and I wasn't shy or svit like that. This is good.

Oh and yea it is all in my head is what it comes down to, ejaculating during sex would be viewed in your head as a victory as jacking off wouldn't. Push comes to shove, this has been working for me. Only trying to help.
 

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I tried it today. I didn't feel more confidence, but I was able to talk to a girl from one of my classes a little bit. Although, as usual, my ears were burning up. It always happens. That, or my face, or both.
 

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Black Circle said:
This has been said here and there on this site under the masturbation threads, but I want to reinforce it, mainly because for me, it works big time. What i'm talking about is "edging". You start your day by starting to jack off and right before you ejaculate, you stop. You don't ejaculate, you "edge".

Go out for your day and tell me things don't godifferent in a good way. I guess I must of looked better, I felt "alpha", got eye contact from tons of girls, I even got hit on by some older chick. She asked me what college I go to and what I was doing the rest of the day and i'm like "wtf college, i'm in high school". And then she asks if i'm 18 and i'm like nope. If this chick had longer hair, i'd be all over her. Damn always get attention from the ones with gross short hair, oh well working on that.

Anyway....edge, try it for yourself.:up:
Dude, I have tried this **** before, it works :rockon: .
I felt strong and secure, and much more relaxed than I am sometimes. I recommend doing this in the morning. I also think its mostly all "in your head", but it works.
 

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Stoic_Mo said:
Dude, I have tried this **** before, it works :rockon: .
I felt strong and secure, and much more relaxed than I am sometimes. I recommend doing this in the morning. I also think its mostly all "in your head", but it works.
exactly:rockon:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Black Circle said:
Hmmm, if you start jacking off a little and just get it set and not go for so long, you won't have blue balls.

I don't know about u guys, but this is in a sense a confidence booster shot and all of you are pussies going against it. Psh, I "edged" today again and had girls talking to me all day out of nowhere and I wasn't shy or svit like that. This is good.

Oh and yea it is all in my head is what it comes down to, ejaculating during sex would be viewed in your head as a victory as jacking off wouldn't. Push comes to shove, this has been working for me. Only trying to help.
wutever works for u man. not gonna stop u from doin ur thing....but jus cus i dont hav to use little tricks like this to get my confidence up doesnt make me a pu$$y. if u cant feel good about yourself without relying on "edging" then u mite hav a problem

ill try this out tomorrow tho, jus to see if it works
 

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I don't think this would be such a good idea. Considering you can get really bad blue balls from doing that. And I've had it before.. and it sucks. You can't just start to jerk, then stop and forget, once you start the scemin wants out bro.. ahaha.
 

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all I can say is it works for me and I was just sharing it, if it works, great, all the power to you.
 

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It works. Problem is that when you DO get laid, you'll *** in 2 seconds :p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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