"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Been seeing HB7.5 for 9 weeks now. Things are going well. One problem…she has vertical & horizontal scars on her wrists. : / I have’nt asked her about them. I knew she dosent see/get on well with her dad. I’d been fuc*ing her for a few days & whilst in my arms feeling close to me I asked about her dad. She told me he used to beat her & her brother up when they were younger. The stories were shocking. I met her on tinder. Any thoughts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what do you think man? damaged goods.

Do not get attached, and do not make her attached either...unless you want some real drama coming to your life...
 
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I think she is already attached Ha :) I'm not sure. The scars aren't a good sign, but maybe i'll give her a chance. I might ask her about the scars one day.
 
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Dude this sounds like a huge red flag. Not just the scars but that she was abused by her dad. Women who didn't have a father figure in their life or who were abused by theirs usually end up with serious psychological issues. If I were you I'd steer clear, in due time you will probably see it for yourself too, but it's hard when you're wrapped in their vortex.
 
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Other than the few questions you've asked (and she's answered) and the scars, does she seem okay?

All these guys typing about 'red flags' don't mean a thing. What's your experience telling you?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rainman4707

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Tictac said:
Other than the few questions you've asked (and she's answered) and the scars, does she seem okay?

All these guys typing about 'red flags' don't mean a thing. What's your experience telling you?
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Yes she does seem ok. I might ask her about it soon (when she is feeling close to me)

The scars do put doubts in my mind about her though. I will see her again
 
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