****ed up!?

[Rainman4707]

Been seeing HB7.5 for 9 weeks now. Things are going well. One problem…she has vertical & horizontal scars on her wrists. : / I have’nt asked her about them. I knew she dosent see/get on well with her dad. I’d been fuc*ing her for a few days & whilst in my arms feeling close to me I asked about her dad. She told me he used to beat her & her brother up when they were younger. The stories were shocking. I met her on tinder. Any thoughts?

 

[pyros]

what do you think man? damaged goods.

Do not get attached, and do not make her attached either...unless you want some real drama coming to your life...

 

[Rainman4707]

I think she is already attached Ha I'm not sure. The scars aren't a good sign, but maybe i'll give her a chance. I might ask her about the scars one day.

 

[Meisterman]

Dude this sounds like a huge red flag. Not just the scars but that she was abused by her dad. Women who didn't have a father figure in their life or who were abused by theirs usually end up with serious psychological issues. If I were you I'd steer clear, in due time you will probably see it for yourself too, but it's hard when you're wrapped in their vortex.

 

[Tictac]

Other than the few questions you've asked (and she's answered) and the scars, does she seem okay?

All these guys typing about 'red flags' don't mean a thing. What's your experience telling you?

 

[Rainman4707]

Other than the few questions you've asked (and she's answered) and the scars, does she seem okay?

All these guys typing about 'red flags' don't mean a thing. What's your experience telling you?

Yes she does seem ok. I might ask her about it soon (when she is feeling close to me)

The scars do put doubts in my mind about her though. I will see her again