"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ecstasy is a helluva drug.

NotaNewbie

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So i went out clubbing with some friends and one of my ex's. We took some Ecstasy (If anyone here tried it they'll know this is a helluva drug). I ended up doing stuff with her that i really regret, but don't know how to break that bad news to her that it was the drug that was in control. Having that on my mind the whole week really messed up my whole week. So if anyone could shed some light on what to do or how to deal with this please let me know. She even said it that night "I bet you're gonna forget about me in the morning", and i promised her i won't and that she meant something to me (Which at the moment sounded like the most perfect thing ever).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hahahah.

Too loved up hey.

Just her straight up your attitude that night was because of a drug.

Ps. I have done this also.

Also do not take Ecstasy very much/at all.
 

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I don't want to prove her right that i am the jerk she thought i was.
 

Jaggs

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Then suck it up and pretend to like her for X amount of time:rolleyes:

If you honestly don't like her then there is nothing else you can say/do. Just be nice about it.
 

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listen man, be straight with her and be honest. its going to be awkward, but it's a question of your integrity and not being a coward. you were man enough to make the decision to do E, you should be man enough to handle any consequences as a result.
She's not going to like it, but she'll have some small respect for the fact you were a man about the situation rather than a boy.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When i have problems i cant be bothered to deal with and that wont affect my life negatively i light up a big spliff and forget about them.. :D
 
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