"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ecstasy is a helluva drug.

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So i went out clubbing with some friends and one of my ex's. We took some Ecstasy (If anyone here tried it they'll know this is a helluva drug). I ended up doing stuff with her that i really regret, but don't know how to break that bad news to her that it was the drug that was in control. Having that on my mind the whole week really messed up my whole week. So if anyone could shed some light on what to do or how to deal with this please let me know. She even said it that night "I bet you're gonna forget about me in the morning", and i promised her i won't and that she meant something to me (Which at the moment sounded like the most perfect thing ever).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hahahah.

Too loved up hey.

Just her straight up your attitude that night was because of a drug.

Ps. I have done this also.

Also do not take Ecstasy very much/at all.
 

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I don't want to prove her right that i am the jerk she thought i was.
 

Jaggs

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Then suck it up and pretend to like her for X amount of time:rolleyes:

If you honestly don't like her then there is nothing else you can say/do. Just be nice about it.
 

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listen man, be straight with her and be honest. its going to be awkward, but it's a question of your integrity and not being a coward. you were man enough to make the decision to do E, you should be man enough to handle any consequences as a result.
She's not going to like it, but she'll have some small respect for the fact you were a man about the situation rather than a boy.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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When i have problems i cant be bothered to deal with and that wont affect my life negatively i light up a big spliff and forget about them.. :D
 
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