"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ecstasy is a helluva drug.

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So i went out clubbing with some friends and one of my ex's. We took some Ecstasy (If anyone here tried it they'll know this is a helluva drug). I ended up doing stuff with her that i really regret, but don't know how to break that bad news to her that it was the drug that was in control. Having that on my mind the whole week really messed up my whole week. So if anyone could shed some light on what to do or how to deal with this please let me know. She even said it that night "I bet you're gonna forget about me in the morning", and i promised her i won't and that she meant something to me (Which at the moment sounded like the most perfect thing ever).
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hahahah.

Too loved up hey.

Just her straight up your attitude that night was because of a drug.

Ps. I have done this also.

Also do not take Ecstasy very much/at all.
 
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I don't want to prove her right that i am the jerk she thought i was.
 
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Then suck it up and pretend to like her for X amount of time:rolleyes:

If you honestly don't like her then there is nothing else you can say/do. Just be nice about it.
 
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listen man, be straight with her and be honest. its going to be awkward, but it's a question of your integrity and not being a coward. you were man enough to make the decision to do E, you should be man enough to handle any consequences as a result.
She's not going to like it, but she'll have some small respect for the fact you were a man about the situation rather than a boy.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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When i have problems i cant be bothered to deal with and that wont affect my life negatively i light up a big spliff and forget about them.. :D
 
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