"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ecstasy is a helluva drug.

NotaNewbie

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So i went out clubbing with some friends and one of my ex's. We took some Ecstasy (If anyone here tried it they'll know this is a helluva drug). I ended up doing stuff with her that i really regret, but don't know how to break that bad news to her that it was the drug that was in control. Having that on my mind the whole week really messed up my whole week. So if anyone could shed some light on what to do or how to deal with this please let me know. She even said it that night "I bet you're gonna forget about me in the morning", and i promised her i won't and that she meant something to me (Which at the moment sounded like the most perfect thing ever).
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hahahah.

Too loved up hey.

Just her straight up your attitude that night was because of a drug.

Ps. I have done this also.

Also do not take Ecstasy very much/at all.
 

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I don't want to prove her right that i am the jerk she thought i was.
 

Jaggs

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Then suck it up and pretend to like her for X amount of time:rolleyes:

If you honestly don't like her then there is nothing else you can say/do. Just be nice about it.
 

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listen man, be straight with her and be honest. its going to be awkward, but it's a question of your integrity and not being a coward. you were man enough to make the decision to do E, you should be man enough to handle any consequences as a result.
She's not going to like it, but she'll have some small respect for the fact you were a man about the situation rather than a boy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When i have problems i cant be bothered to deal with and that wont affect my life negatively i light up a big spliff and forget about them.. :D
 
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