"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Echarte Tolle - Relationships - Worth a watch :)

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This guy looks stup!d to me :moon:

Doesn't mean what he says is right or wrong :D
 
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BrownBear said:
This guy looks stup!d to me :moon:

Doesn't mean what he says is right or wrong :D
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I agree BB, when i first started watching his stuff i thought the same, but his messages make sense to me, hope it will help others :)
 
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Backwardsman said:
I agree BB, when i first started watching his stuff i thought the same, but his messages make sense to me, hope it will help others :)
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Surely it won't help most of those dumpass on this site :D
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So what we think love is, is rarely love. Its more like a security blanket that helps distract us from our emptiness. When it stops filling the void, we begin to despise the very thing which at one time brought us the feeling of being whole . This is why we must learn to realize we only need ourselves, and we do not need external things to find wholeness.
 
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RSD is big on Eckhart Tolle. I think it's kind of amusing that Tolle is a religious/spiritual leader who talks about God, yet is revered by a PUA community that is made up largely of atheists.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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