"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

Echarte Tolle - Relationships - Worth a watch :)

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

BrownBear

Banned
Joined
Mar 24, 2013
Messages
180
Reaction score
4
This guy looks stup!d to me :moon:

Doesn't mean what he says is right or wrong :D
 

Backwardsman

Don Juan
Joined
May 10, 2013
Messages
77
Reaction score
6
BrownBear said:
This guy looks stup!d to me :moon:

Doesn't mean what he says is right or wrong :D
I agree BB, when i first started watching his stuff i thought the same, but his messages make sense to me, hope it will help others :)
 

BrownBear

Banned
Joined
Mar 24, 2013
Messages
180
Reaction score
4
Backwardsman said:
I agree BB, when i first started watching his stuff i thought the same, but his messages make sense to me, hope it will help others :)
Surely it won't help most of those dumpass on this site :D
 

Sneevox

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 14, 2012
Messages
314
Reaction score
14
Location
The Summerlands

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

VikingKing

Banned
Joined
May 17, 2013
Messages
2,148
Reaction score
89
Location
America is best
So what we think love is, is rarely love. Its more like a security blanket that helps distract us from our emptiness. When it stops filling the void, we begin to despise the very thing which at one time brought us the feeling of being whole . This is why we must learn to realize we only need ourselves, and we do not need external things to find wholeness.
 

zekko

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2009
Messages
16,800
Reaction score
10,033
RSD is big on Eckhart Tolle. I think it's kind of amusing that Tolle is a religious/spiritual leader who talks about God, yet is revered by a PUA community that is made up largely of atheists.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Top