"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Echarte Tolle - Relationships - Worth a watch :)

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This guy looks stup!d to me :moon:

Doesn't mean what he says is right or wrong :D
 
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BrownBear said:
This guy looks stup!d to me :moon:

Doesn't mean what he says is right or wrong :D
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I agree BB, when i first started watching his stuff i thought the same, but his messages make sense to me, hope it will help others :)
 
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Backwardsman said:
I agree BB, when i first started watching his stuff i thought the same, but his messages make sense to me, hope it will help others :)
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Surely it won't help most of those dumpass on this site :D
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So what we think love is, is rarely love. Its more like a security blanket that helps distract us from our emptiness. When it stops filling the void, we begin to despise the very thing which at one time brought us the feeling of being whole . This is why we must learn to realize we only need ourselves, and we do not need external things to find wholeness.
 
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RSD is big on Eckhart Tolle. I think it's kind of amusing that Tolle is a religious/spiritual leader who talks about God, yet is revered by a PUA community that is made up largely of atheists.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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