"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Echarte Tolle - Relationships - Worth a watch :)

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This guy looks stup!d to me :moon:

Doesn't mean what he says is right or wrong :D
 
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BrownBear said:
This guy looks stup!d to me :moon:

Doesn't mean what he says is right or wrong :D
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I agree BB, when i first started watching his stuff i thought the same, but his messages make sense to me, hope it will help others :)
 
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Backwardsman said:
I agree BB, when i first started watching his stuff i thought the same, but his messages make sense to me, hope it will help others :)
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Surely it won't help most of those dumpass on this site :D
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So what we think love is, is rarely love. Its more like a security blanket that helps distract us from our emptiness. When it stops filling the void, we begin to despise the very thing which at one time brought us the feeling of being whole . This is why we must learn to realize we only need ourselves, and we do not need external things to find wholeness.
 
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RSD is big on Eckhart Tolle. I think it's kind of amusing that Tolle is a religious/spiritual leader who talks about God, yet is revered by a PUA community that is made up largely of atheists.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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