"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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david90

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I was walking on campus and I looked at this chick who was heading towards me and once our eyes met she looked away inmediately. Should I consider this as a stay away from me signal? What does it mean? I get this alot and wonder what I should do. I know some people are gonna say why don't u approach and ask but I like to have some positive signal first. I don't think I have the model looks but at the same time I doubt am the Hunch Back of Notre Dam.:p
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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it can mean anything, so why not aproch? it will alow you to have a better idea of her intrest levle and you are only talking to her so even if shes not intrested it really does not matter 1 bit.
 

david90

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I'm always thinking that EC= interest and no EC = no interest so why waste my time.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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there are a lot of rules but they are not definite, this is not maths. At the end of the day if you try and remember all the rules you will fail, you must remember the principals not the rules for the rules are only genrelisations. Remeber you should be confident. you should not remember that if she looks at you a certian way then she likes you because its only in genral and there are too many exceptions i often try and get EC with girls even if i am not intrested in them.
 

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well i have an EC question
sometimes i findmyself not looking directly at the person's eyes, but just below their eyes, and when they're talking sometimes their mouth

anything wrong with this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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i do that sometimes, its because if you look them in the eyes a lot it looks like you are staring them out. Notinhg worng with what you are doing i dont think so anyway. 1 good place would be to focus on the bridge of theire nose (between their eyes)
 
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