"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Eating Late- Please Help

ostap1

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OK, so I work out about 4 times a week and do abs and push-ups everyday and I have a job where I work late and I always am hungry around 1 or 2 am when I get off work and eat late very often. Do you guys have any tips and/or tactics to combat my sensational hunger? I mean what can I do to make it go away or at least subdue it until morning. Any and all help will be greatly appreciated. BTW i weigh 165 and am 6 ft. tall and am 24 yrs. old.

Thanks again.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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blinkwatt101

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Raw unsalted no b.s. peanuts,cashews,almonds. Egg whites. You will be fine having a handful of raw fresh fruit,no canned non-sense(ever).
 

WC2

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There's nothing wrong with eating late as long as you're eating the right thing.

It's a myth (almost every woman believes this BTW) that eating late is worse for you than eating while you're active. Total Caloric Intake/Total Calories burned is what matters at the end of the day.

With that said, don't eat a bunch of simple carbs before you goto sleep.

Cottage Cheese, Nuts, Casein Protein are all good choices.
 

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well i should have specified more clearly that I eat full meal almost, no cashews, nuts, yogurt, etc. I mean like chicken sandwiches and dare I say Taco Bell. It really upsets me that I get the urge to eat so late and when I do eat it's not that healthy.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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