"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Eating Healthy is Hard

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For the past 3 weeks I have been making a more committed attempt to eating healthier. Cereal, sandwiches, bagels, good meat and not the fried ****. You have no idea how bad I want to get a good ole' burger and fries with coke. Here I am with a sandwich I can barely down drinking lemonade. I do love lemonade though :rock:

I am already a fit dude. I am not overweight. If anything I can gain 10 or so pounds to get a little bigger. I am not enjoying food as much as I used to compared to when I was eating pizza rolls and fried chicken. Is this something I need to adapt to in order to de-program years of eating like a fatass?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You'll get used to it, and you'll feel better all over. My new years resolution was no more fried food. Now whenever I see a piece of fried chicken I find the greasy, artery-clogging skin disgusting. Good luck! :rockon:
 
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The easiest way to start is to cut one item from your diet at a time.

For myself I started with:

1. Soda
2. Candy
3. Cake
4. You get the idea

That way I still have some freedom in what I eat, such as eating at Chipotle.
 
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No it isn't. Quit your whining.

If your food tastes bad put some money in spices and pick up some recipe books.
 

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I don't think so. I buy Quinoa and Scottish oats by the pound. It's dirt cheap, super healthy, and takes two minutes to cook. It's plain, but it doesn't taste bad at least. Throw in meals with meat, veggies, and fruit and you're on a great rotation.

Lemonade is terrible for you btw. All that sugar is worse than a bit of extra fat.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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prairiedog24 said:
Lemonade is terrible for you btw. All that sugar is worse than a bit of extra fat.
Really? Figured freshly squeezed wouldn't have all that sugar in it.

Alle_Gory said:
No it isn't. Quit your whining.
You're right. But with my diet the past few years it sure isn't easy.
 

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Upside said:
Really? Figured freshly squeezed wouldn't have all that sugar in it.
Lemonade:

water
sugar
lemons

You're right. But with my diet the past few years it sure isn't easy.
Keep at it. You'll get used to it. Make the change slow so you can avoid slipping back into that.
 

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In the begining I agree it is not easy, but after you formed the healthy habit you will notice you will feel much better, lighter and more energetic. Youll wonder why you ever ate junk food in the first place.

My tip is learn how to cook well. I cook amazing good healthy foods, you can take advice from women.. thats how I learned to cook.
 

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Espi said:
I strongly suggest that you research what other people with lean, muscular physiques are eating...you're going to be hard pressed to find many such people who eat cereal and bagels...
im 175, and ripped (been doing max-ot or p90x for over a year/rotation between the two).... and i eat grapenuts and kashi... although im not sure if they qualify as cereal or crunchy cardboard :)

i barely get any enjoyment out of eating anymore... even spices and recipes dont do anything for me, so i just stick with the basics (normally elected to eat whatever is easy to make)... i do make my own sickenin healthy ketchup though and put it on EVERYTHING! that helps some... but im even tired of ketchup...

i also give myself a cheat meal here and there but make sure i keep it in proportion...
 
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