"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Easy tip I can share for you guys.

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I know I’m new, and I love this forum. I have a son that I would like to pass teachings onto to being a man, and also I understand there is a lot of readers here that are over a heart break, or curious how to proceed.

I attached an image of this chick, who I did ****, and can **** whenever I want.

She has a guy, she loves so much, posts about it, etc.

She posted a manual that said only 16% percent of women know how to drive a stick shift. Why did she do this? She knows guys will feel attracted to guys writing to her about it. She still loves that attention.

This is what I write. Asking her when did she find out, and she knows what I’m talking about.

the whole time this chick types she is worried I might say different cause she knows I might say “only stick you know how to handle is the one between my legs”, I know she has ANXIETY over it, so what I say is to her “hahah” but flirty cause she knows I can, and at the same time she sees I won’t, that’s why she always stays in touch.

This is one EXAMPLE. Just on FB.

Then I don’t comment. But when I do show up once a month, she will **** me on her lunch break.

meanwhile this could be your girl. You could be buying those gifts, flowers, poems, or whatever.

So my tip is: never disrespect a female. Just make her feel.

don’t be superior or inferior to who she talks with, dates, hangs with, any of that. Be YOU

be a MAN.This doesn’t mean 6’4, bull**** incels spit. If you’re 6’4 and aren’t collecting millions due to a sport you’re worthless.

Connor McGregor is like 5’6 I think? About 150-160 pounds. Personally I’m 6 foot and now over weight at 210, and at my best with muscle was 185.

I’m sure McGreggor is more appealing than me or a 6’4 guy with no heart besides being nice.

Don’t tell women “I know I’m short, I know I’m fat, I know I’m weird, I know I didn’t dress well”... everything about you has to make her QUESTION good and bad about YOU, and no matter your size or looks, just be a MAN what man thinks.

If you think about it what I wrote on her FB discretely is show knows how to work a ****. If her BF questions her, she’ll say I’m a good friend obsessed with cars and annoying. He will look weird for even asking that.

If he would not do such a stupid thing, she wouldn’t even entertain talking to me with a dumb questions and comments like that.

I ended it with “everything is HARD”, she doesn’t know what to say, cause I don’t need her pity, she doesn’t want to ask what else is hard, so what will she do, let it be. But she knows what’s hard.
Her dude don’t.

Don’t be her dude, be you, a man as you were born. I’ll share more down the line if I get good reception, which means good legit opinions, etc.
 

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I will say auto correct makes typos. Excuse that. I’m too lazy to correct them.
 

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I ended it with “everything is HARD”, she doesn’t know what to say
she does know what to say, youve indirectly suggested you two have been fcking.

women dont like being called out as *****s.

the only women i reply to or comment on, are the ones who reply to my status's

I purposely make relationship status's that engage women.

they comment in their herds, they love it when you communicate you have a common enemy(beta males)
 

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So you have no interest with her outside of this? And her guy must feel lucky to have her because if a dude was saying something like that I’d have to investigate. Not tell her but check her actions. You do something for her that he can’t.
She’s living a lie. Prob feels guilty so goes over the top about their fraud ‘love’.
 

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Doesn't surprise me at all. It's nice to be on the other side of the red pill isn't it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I purposely make relationship status's that engage women.

they comment in their herds, they love it when you communicate you have a common enemy(beta males)
Can you elaborate?
 

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Can you elaborate?
Do a playful derek jackson status, ribbing men for how needy they are and insecure, the women will flock to it

women love having their ego's soothed

I hold women accountable but i make it fun
 

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she does know what to say, youve indirectly suggested you two have been fcking.

women dont like being called out as *****s.

the only women i reply to or comment on, are the ones who reply to my status's

I purposely make relationship status's that engage women.

they comment in their herds, they love it when you communicate you have a common enemy(beta males)
Damn right, I **** his girl. But I joke like that while they do kayaking and another lovely crap. She knows what I mean by that, and she has enough nerve to allow that.
I love being red pilled.

I wish other guys don’t use the red pill as a game. This is something you wing as you go daily, and it’s a habit. From texts, to FB, to Starbucks, etc.
 
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