"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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No, I am not talking about rap music.

Has anyone lived on either one and moved to the other and vice versa?

I am from NJ and was wondering if life would be better in Southern California.

Although I have never been there, California is probably the nicest state in the Union.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I live in jersey to and plan to go to cali/florida for college, so I would like to know as well from somene who knows about this.

Also, how's the diversity there? I like seeing all types of women, white, LATINA, black, latina, asian, latina, etc.
 
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you're from New Jersey and you're wondering if life would be better in california?

anywhere is better than jersey. and why not go somewhere with beautiful women, wonderful beaches and a whole lot of gay men?
 
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Porky said:
you're from New Jersey and you're wondering if life would be better in california?

anywhere is better than jersey. and why not go somewhere with beautiful women, wonderful beaches and a whole lot of gay men?
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What do people have against Jersey?

I can think of far worse places to live in the US than Jersey....like places in the Mid West and Deep South.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mahon83050 said:
What do people have against Jersey?

I can think of far worse places to live in the US than Jersey....like places in the Mid West and Deep South.
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Jersey is the butt of a lot of jokes on tv (late night shows like conan and letterman). I don't know why but people love making fun of Jersey.
 
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Midwest>Jersey.
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I hear Chicago is nice, but whatelse is so great about the Midwest?..Don't tell me St.Louis....you don't have the ocean nor do you have the ethnic diversity of the Northeast.

Don't knock Jersey...we have our faults...we have alot of good things...including the TOP RANKED school in the whole country...Princeton University!!
 
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mahon83050 said:
I hear Chicago is nice, but whatelse is so great about the Midwest?..Don't tell me St.Louis....you don't have the ocean nor do you have the ethnic diversity of the Northeast.

Don't knock Jersey...we have our faults...we have alot of good things...including the TOP RANKED school in the whole country...Princeton University!!
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We don't have the ethnic diversity? Oh puhleaze. Blacks, Hispanics, Asian, European. We got them all in my CITY. Not in the vast numbers as places like NYC, but we've got it. Believe me.


Never been to Jersey, so I won't claim the midwest is better, but still. We've got diversity my friend.
 
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why do people say "dirty jersey!!!!"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I orginally from Ventura, CA and moved to Connecticut. They both have their ups and downs
 
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Hey Mahon, it's seem that it has been awhile that you've been contemplating in moving out of weird NJ. I was thinking about moving to SoCal but bad (then good) things happened and are happening that are slowing my process of relocating to sunny California. Both of my siblings moved to the West Coast and they are loving it! Except of course, they missed our family functions here in Piscataway. Well, everyday I am getting more convinced to also move westbound especially when clownbltch governor increased our state tax.

Just go, man!
mahon83050 said:
No, I am not talking about rap music.

Has anyone lived on either one and moved to the other and vice versa?

I am from NJ and was wondering if life would be better in Southern California.

Although I have never been there, California is probably the nicest state in the Union.
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