"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No, I am not talking about rap music.

Has anyone lived on either one and moved to the other and vice versa?

I am from NJ and was wondering if life would be better in Southern California.

Although I have never been there, California is probably the nicest state in the Union.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I live in jersey to and plan to go to cali/florida for college, so I would like to know as well from somene who knows about this.

Also, how's the diversity there? I like seeing all types of women, white, LATINA, black, latina, asian, latina, etc.
 
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you're from New Jersey and you're wondering if life would be better in california?

anywhere is better than jersey. and why not go somewhere with beautiful women, wonderful beaches and a whole lot of gay men?
 
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Porky said:
you're from New Jersey and you're wondering if life would be better in california?

anywhere is better than jersey. and why not go somewhere with beautiful women, wonderful beaches and a whole lot of gay men?
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What do people have against Jersey?

I can think of far worse places to live in the US than Jersey....like places in the Mid West and Deep South.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What do people have against Jersey?

I can think of far worse places to live in the US than Jersey....like places in the Mid West and Deep South.
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Jersey is the butt of a lot of jokes on tv (late night shows like conan and letterman). I don't know why but people love making fun of Jersey.
 
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Midwest>Jersey.
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I hear Chicago is nice, but whatelse is so great about the Midwest?..Don't tell me St.Louis....you don't have the ocean nor do you have the ethnic diversity of the Northeast.

Don't knock Jersey...we have our faults...we have alot of good things...including the TOP RANKED school in the whole country...Princeton University!!
 
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mahon83050 said:
I hear Chicago is nice, but whatelse is so great about the Midwest?..Don't tell me St.Louis....you don't have the ocean nor do you have the ethnic diversity of the Northeast.

Don't knock Jersey...we have our faults...we have alot of good things...including the TOP RANKED school in the whole country...Princeton University!!
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We don't have the ethnic diversity? Oh puhleaze. Blacks, Hispanics, Asian, European. We got them all in my CITY. Not in the vast numbers as places like NYC, but we've got it. Believe me.


Never been to Jersey, so I won't claim the midwest is better, but still. We've got diversity my friend.
 
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why do people say "dirty jersey!!!!"
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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I orginally from Ventura, CA and moved to Connecticut. They both have their ups and downs
 
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Hey Mahon, it's seem that it has been awhile that you've been contemplating in moving out of weird NJ. I was thinking about moving to SoCal but bad (then good) things happened and are happening that are slowing my process of relocating to sunny California. Both of my siblings moved to the West Coast and they are loving it! Except of course, they missed our family functions here in Piscataway. Well, everyday I am getting more convinced to also move westbound especially when clownbltch governor increased our state tax.

Just go, man!
mahon83050 said:
No, I am not talking about rap music.

Has anyone lived on either one and moved to the other and vice versa?

I am from NJ and was wondering if life would be better in Southern California.

Although I have never been there, California is probably the nicest state in the Union.
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