“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Easier to get laid then to get a date?

lifeislearning

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Lately I've really been embracing the DJ lifestyle in addition to starting a conversation with any girl I find attractive. Years ago I was an AFC with some DJ suaveness, but the wrong mindset, and I had tons of dates but little physical contact.

Now with a great mindset and a more aggressive approach women seem to want to get physical with me almost immediately. In the past month I've gotten laid 4 times, 3 bjs, 2hjs, and maybe 20 numbers. but I have yet to set up one date (before getting physical that is). It seems when I try to set up a date the girls flake, and I next them, but they're always down to fool around.

Whats the deal here? Not that I'm complaining, my buddies are astounded, but I would actually like to go on a date with a woman I find interesting before I bang her. Anybody get this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Where are you meeting women that are getting sexual with you before going on a date with you?
 

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Jhcl4000 said:
Where are you meeting women that are getting sexual with you before going on a date with you?
Bars, parties, not really a day game thing.

Alexander, sometimes the challenge and the anticipation make for a good time for us guys too. Thats the whole principle behind lingere and sexy outfits, and possibility flirting and foreplay too.

I want to go out, enjoy myself with a girl I'm interested in, and not be sure if sex is in the equation. It should be a bonus, not the purpose. The purpose is to better myself, learn the game, and excell at it. I guess the bar scene just isn't that fun for me even if I do end up getting laid. The romantic in me comes out :rolleyes:

I know somebody else must get tired of only having a physical connection with women. It seems like women only get that sex vibe from me now, and not so much the date vibe, and I need both to stay interested.
 

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From past experiences, girls would be much more interrested in dating me after sex. It just comes more naturally after, she's already hooked up to you.

Maybe they're physically attracted to you but don't think you're dating material, you gotta build rapport and confort if you wanna see them again after.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Are you fukking unattractive ones and want the hot ones to pick up the phone?
 

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Alexander said:
From past experiences, girls would be much more interrested in dating me after sex. It just comes more naturally after, she's already hooked up to you.

Maybe they're physically attracted to you but don't think you're dating material, you gotta build rapport and confort if you wanna see them again after.
The thing that suprises me is me female friends usually tell me about how ladies think I'm great boyfriend material, but until now haven't usually had this powerful physical interest. Rapport and interest are my greatest strengths. I guess I'm just suprised at the dramatic shift in my fortunes.

Amazing said:
Are you fukking unattractive ones and want the hot ones to pick up the phone?
Awesome! :crackup: Naw, I'm actually pretty choosy with my ladies. I do tend to usually be interested in dating that one girl in the group who no guy has been close to since her highschool bf years ago (you all know that girl). Its the challenge that excites me, I've turned down sex with some hotties because they wanted it and it was way to easy. For me no challenge = not worth my time.

Still I would expect a girl to be more interested in a date than a f*uck. Emotions my ass, women are run by d*ck just as much as we are, they're just better at hiding it :cool:
 
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