"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A topic that I haven't seen on this board: Earrings.

How many of you have them? What kind of stud do u wear? One ear pierced or both? Have you got any positive or negative reactions in regards to them?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I have 2 piercings both on the same ear. Earrings give off the "bad boy"/rebellious image and is a turn on for most girls.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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I'm old school, just one stud in the left ear. I get the "Most guys my age don't look good wearing earrings, but you don't look your age." Hmmm, was that a neg-hit or what? :p
 
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I got both pierced. I think it has to go with your personality and how you dress. You can't be wearing abercrombie and fitch with big ass fake diamonds in your ears. And no hoops please. Thats just gay.

I haven't experienced a major difference. A few comments from girls who knew me without them thought they were sexy, gave me a little edge to my look I guess. But other than chicks that actually know you, don't expect much. Girls aren't gonna just start flocking to you because you have pierced ears.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Warboss Alex

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I'm old school, just one stud in the left ear
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I'm old-school too! :up:

I believe with earrings, less is more in most cases.
 
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Man, in the old days, only girls wore earrings.

I'd like to get a d!ck piercing though, maybe a few studs.
 
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I have an earring in both ears, my eyebrow is pierced, and my nose is pierced. I'd like to get my lip pierced and my ear cartilage next...me loves the face metal
 
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