"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Earrings

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green69

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A topic that I haven't seen on this board: Earrings.

How many of you have them? What kind of stud do u wear? One ear pierced or both? Have you got any positive or negative reactions in regards to them?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have 2 piercings both on the same ear. Earrings give off the "bad boy"/rebellious image and is a turn on for most girls.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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I'm old school, just one stud in the left ear. I get the "Most guys my age don't look good wearing earrings, but you don't look your age." Hmmm, was that a neg-hit or what? :p
 
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I got both pierced. I think it has to go with your personality and how you dress. You can't be wearing abercrombie and fitch with big ass fake diamonds in your ears. And no hoops please. Thats just gay.

I haven't experienced a major difference. A few comments from girls who knew me without them thought they were sexy, gave me a little edge to my look I guess. But other than chicks that actually know you, don't expect much. Girls aren't gonna just start flocking to you because you have pierced ears.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Warboss Alex

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I'm old school, just one stud in the left ear
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I'm old-school too! :up:

I believe with earrings, less is more in most cases.
 
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Man, in the old days, only girls wore earrings.

I'd like to get a d!ck piercing though, maybe a few studs.
 
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I have an earring in both ears, my eyebrow is pierced, and my nose is pierced. I'd like to get my lip pierced and my ear cartilage next...me loves the face metal
 
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