"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Earrings

green69

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A topic that I haven't seen on this board: Earrings.

How many of you have them? What kind of stud do u wear? One ear pierced or both? Have you got any positive or negative reactions in regards to them?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rebound Material

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I have 2 piercings both on the same ear. Earrings give off the "bad boy"/rebellious image and is a turn on for most girls.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I'm old school, just one stud in the left ear. I get the "Most guys my age don't look good wearing earrings, but you don't look your age." Hmmm, was that a neg-hit or what? :p
 

ValleyDJing

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I got both pierced. I think it has to go with your personality and how you dress. You can't be wearing abercrombie and fitch with big ass fake diamonds in your ears. And no hoops please. Thats just gay.

I haven't experienced a major difference. A few comments from girls who knew me without them thought they were sexy, gave me a little edge to my look I guess. But other than chicks that actually know you, don't expect much. Girls aren't gonna just start flocking to you because you have pierced ears.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Warboss Alex

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I'm old school, just one stud in the left ear
I'm old-school too! :up:

I believe with earrings, less is more in most cases.
 

diplomatic_lies

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Man, in the old days, only girls wore earrings.

I'd like to get a d!ck piercing though, maybe a few studs.
 

WhitePimp

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I have an earring in both ears, my eyebrow is pierced, and my nose is pierced. I'd like to get my lip pierced and my ear cartilage next...me loves the face metal
 
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