HaleyBaron
Master Don Juan
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I got it from Tyrone Magnus. I guess it's floating around the RP circles now.Saw this in Rollo's twitter. Big oof.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Depends on the state. However, my divorce took about 2 years after I filed for divorce.. We were married for 1.6 years. Divorces generally take a long time unless both want one. I wanted it, she didn't. This female above doesn't want a divorce, she just wants to fvck a supposedly previous lover.I'm not too familiar with divorce process time frames. Could she file for divorce and have in finalized before she dies, so he doesn't get her life insurance or benefits?
There’s something about the level of savagery here that is just beautiful.Disrespectful.
He needs to let her live her 9 months anywhere but in his house and/or near him. Out the door and see you in the next life.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Again, what does being a ****ty person have to do with biology? She’s a ****ty person, she just happens to be dying is all. ****ty people die all the time.Why this shocks the veteran guys that come here is surprising.
They are capable of anything. When you wake up to some certain hard truths about life, your life, and the nature of women and this evolved ego.
This starts to become funny because its so dam predictable.
And who knows the details they might have been swingers or some shyt.
The game never ends and its on until you die.
Big wake up call.
Your girl is not special she is a jekyll and Hyde
The emotional toll on him must be very great; should this be true. No guarantee she's actually pass on within the said 9 months. However, either way, it would suck as he's basically in a catch-22 situation. Best idea would be to stay in the home and fvck other females on the side in another town/city with another alias in case something happens.That's a real Sophie's choice then.. He can leave her, and hope that she doesn't divorce him in a timely fashion to prevent him from getting her insurance/benefits, or he can cuck himself to get them. I guess I'd let her do it, and start banging other chicks, then get her life insurance and or benefits when she dies.
I was just thinking about the best course of action in this situation and this is basically what I would do. I would stay publicly married so that I don't look like an arshole for leaving a sick and dying wife, not to mention other family and legal reasons. Since she doesn't want to be faithful, he shouldn't have to be either.The emotional toll on him must be very great; should this be true. No guarantee she's actually pass on within the said 9 months. However, either way, it would suck as he's basically in a catch-22 situation. Best idea would be to stay in the home and fvck other females on the side in another town/city with another alias in case something happens.
1) Pen name (not illegal)
2) Burner phone (not illegal)
3) Uber everywhere, no car, all transactions (drinks, food, entertainment, etc.) in cash.
Once she does pass on, publicly morn and then hit the streets.
It seems like being altruistic and generous is seeing from women as a defective trait for a man, kinda like being a loser for wasting your resources on a depreciating asset.Sitting right now about 5 miles from me is a guy I went to school with from a decent family.
He met a girl and they got engaged. During the engagement she is diagnosed with terminal cancer.
So they said at the time.
This guy went through all the hoops.
Medical treatment, chemo, benefits and big gatherings.
The whole area knew about it. Good will showered all over the place. Hallmark shyt
You are probably guessing already. Yes..right she started an affair and was banging a dude the whole time behind his back.
This is a true story as the sky is blue.
Let this sink in.
And no she wasn't considered " a piece of shyt person"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Its hard to say if its bigger their craving for the alpha or their disgust for the beta.5 minutes of alpha beats 50 years of beta.
Not surprised. Females are very opportunistic. Give any of them an inch, they will try to get a mile. Compassion is needed, yes, but can't allow another person to walk all over you. She (or he) needs to know, if sh!t go sour, you're out.Sitting right now about 5 miles from me is a guy I went to school with from a decent family.
He met a girl and they got engaged. During the engagement she is diagnosed with terminal cancer.
So they said at the time.
This guy went through all the hoops.
Medical treatment, chemo, benefits and big gatherings.
The whole area knew about it. Good will showered all over the place. Hallmark shyt
You are probably guessing already. Yes..right she started an affair and was banging a dude the whole time behind his back.
This is a true story as the sky is blue.
Let this sink in.
And no she wasn't considered " a piece of shyt person"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.