..though I'm not already an expert dj.. my performance with girls was good to moderate.. the problem is I want to settled now on my girlfriend. Yes, i had a lot of good girls into my life.. they are mostly 9-10 good looking . so the question is.. do i have to dump these girls? F i have to dump them , how will i act to make myself look not cruel on dumping them?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
dumping girls?
- Thread starter djneo
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Doing what your girlfriend is asking you to do, dump all your women, will not make you stay with you. It will have the opposite effect, she'll respect you less.
Settling for girl hurts game too. Now you're stuck at your level without the possibility to grow.
I don't believe you were moderate to good with women nor that you dated 9 to 10s. (hint, no such thing as 10). Based on your present situation and how you handling it, you're just starting. I suggest you dump your girlfriend and keep other girls.
I'm pretty sure you don't have good looks, nor great seduction skills. Something else is at play. Money? Pedigree? Just a guess. But whatever it is, you're not in control of your life and destiny, your woman is.
Settling for girl hurts game too. Now you're stuck at your level without the possibility to grow.
I don't believe you were moderate to good with women nor that you dated 9 to 10s. (hint, no such thing as 10). Based on your present situation and how you handling it, you're just starting. I suggest you dump your girlfriend and keep other girls.
I'm pretty sure you don't have good looks, nor great seduction skills. Something else is at play. Money? Pedigree? Just a guess. But whatever it is, you're not in control of your life and destiny, your woman is.
So basically Stuntmann, you would respect your girlfriend less if she quit dating other guys? :crazy:Stuntmann said:
I agree. If they aren't really 9-10 that is, if they really are I say dump them and ship them to Sweden.Stuntmann said:
Edit: Sorry, forgot to give you any input on your question on HOW to dump them... It depends, how involved are you with them? Do they think that you are exclusive in a relationship, are you just dating or are they fu*k buddies?
Always have a backup. She is trying to isolate you and limit your options. Very common female strategy. Make it clear that you really care for her but you are very attractive to other women and you want to be nice to them and not hurt their feelings. This puts you back in control. She will appreciate the fact that you are still in play and other women really want you. That'll pull her in even more, if that's what you want.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I don't know of any better way than to tell them that you are no longer in love with them. Yes you will probably hurt them, but they will live, thats life.djneo said:
This is the fast way to end the relationship.
If you are not in a hurry, I guess you could become very boring in their company.. be negative, argue about everything, be a whining *****, ccomplain about her friends and maybe even have some of them disslike you, act jelaous and insecure.. and so on.. then she will eventually dump you or you will have a big fight where you can say that this doesn't work out and you two are to different from eachother....
I did get this right when I read it as these are all girlfriends and not girl friends? Cause if they are just friends it's a whole different story!
SaucyBoy said:
All girls are backup even if you haven't even met them yet!
As long as you stay sharp your options aren't really limited just because you don't see other girls behind your girlfriends back. Why would you need girls waiting in stand-by mode when you can just get out there and meet new girls when you feel like it?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.