..though I'm not already an expert dj.. my performance with girls was good to moderate.. the problem is I want to settled now on my girlfriend. Yes, i had a lot of good girls into my life.. they are mostly 9-10 good looking . so the question is.. do i have to dump these girls? F i have to dump them , how will i act to make myself look not cruel on dumping them?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
dumping girls?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Doing what your girlfriend is asking you to do, dump all your women, will not make you stay with you. It will have the opposite effect, she'll respect you less.
Settling for girl hurts game too. Now you're stuck at your level without the possibility to grow.
I don't believe you were moderate to good with women nor that you dated 9 to 10s. (hint, no such thing as 10). Based on your present situation and how you handling it, you're just starting. I suggest you dump your girlfriend and keep other girls.
I'm pretty sure you don't have good looks, nor great seduction skills. Something else is at play. Money? Pedigree? Just a guess. But whatever it is, you're not in control of your life and destiny, your woman is.
Settling for girl hurts game too. Now you're stuck at your level without the possibility to grow.
I don't believe you were moderate to good with women nor that you dated 9 to 10s. (hint, no such thing as 10). Based on your present situation and how you handling it, you're just starting. I suggest you dump your girlfriend and keep other girls.
I'm pretty sure you don't have good looks, nor great seduction skills. Something else is at play. Money? Pedigree? Just a guess. But whatever it is, you're not in control of your life and destiny, your woman is.
So basically Stuntmann, you would respect your girlfriend less if she quit dating other guys? :crazy:Stuntmann said:
I agree. If they aren't really 9-10 that is, if they really are I say dump them and ship them to Sweden.Stuntmann said:
Edit: Sorry, forgot to give you any input on your question on HOW to dump them... It depends, how involved are you with them? Do they think that you are exclusive in a relationship, are you just dating or are they fu*k buddies?
Always have a backup. She is trying to isolate you and limit your options. Very common female strategy. Make it clear that you really care for her but you are very attractive to other women and you want to be nice to them and not hurt their feelings. This puts you back in control. She will appreciate the fact that you are still in play and other women really want you. That'll pull her in even more, if that's what you want.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I don't know of any better way than to tell them that you are no longer in love with them. Yes you will probably hurt them, but they will live, thats life.djneo said:
This is the fast way to end the relationship.
If you are not in a hurry, I guess you could become very boring in their company.. be negative, argue about everything, be a whining *****, ccomplain about her friends and maybe even have some of them disslike you, act jelaous and insecure.. and so on.. then she will eventually dump you or you will have a big fight where you can say that this doesn't work out and you two are to different from eachother....
I did get this right when I read it as these are all girlfriends and not girl friends? Cause if they are just friends it's a whole different story!
SaucyBoy said:
All girls are backup even if you haven't even met them yet!
As long as you stay sharp your options aren't really limited just because you don't see other girls behind your girlfriends back. Why would you need girls waiting in stand-by mode when you can just get out there and meet new girls when you feel like it?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.