"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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one other question (i appreciate all of your advice guys)

sometimes when i am out with my boys and i meet some female friends, their guy friends run to me to freakin hug me!
i don't know these guys and it happens on several different occasions. wtf? they are not gay so what is it? any of you guys had this happen?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lol
they are european cuz i am too

but its not common for european males to hug ya know
happened to me like 4 times now wtf??
 
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from what I heard it is, I think it was a BBB post or somethin where he said he looked thro his photo albums and all of his friends were entagled in affection. As long as it aint gay, you should be cool with it. It is just bein cool. Or you can confront em privately and tell him it makes you uncomfortable
 
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its happened to me once, but they where stoned so thats probably why. Its no big deal.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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so you dont think it could be the guy hearing stories about me and they try and disarm me or something?

talking to them privately wont make a difference cuz it happened 4 times when i never even seen the guy before. just wonder as to how to react to it if it happens again. like push the guy away or pretend its your best friend in the world you aint seen for ages or what?
 
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