"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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one other question (i appreciate all of your advice guys)

sometimes when i am out with my boys and i meet some female friends, their guy friends run to me to freakin hug me!
i don't know these guys and it happens on several different occasions. wtf? they are not gay so what is it? any of you guys had this happen?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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lol
they are european cuz i am too

but its not common for european males to hug ya know
happened to me like 4 times now wtf??
 

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from what I heard it is, I think it was a BBB post or somethin where he said he looked thro his photo albums and all of his friends were entagled in affection. As long as it aint gay, you should be cool with it. It is just bein cool. Or you can confront em privately and tell him it makes you uncomfortable
 

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its happened to me once, but they where stoned so thats probably why. Its no big deal.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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so you dont think it could be the guy hearing stories about me and they try and disarm me or something?

talking to them privately wont make a difference cuz it happened 4 times when i never even seen the guy before. just wonder as to how to react to it if it happens again. like push the guy away or pretend its your best friend in the world you aint seen for ages or what?
 
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