"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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one other question (i appreciate all of your advice guys)

sometimes when i am out with my boys and i meet some female friends, their guy friends run to me to freakin hug me!
i don't know these guys and it happens on several different occasions. wtf? they are not gay so what is it? any of you guys had this happen?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lol
they are european cuz i am too

but its not common for european males to hug ya know
happened to me like 4 times now wtf??
 
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from what I heard it is, I think it was a BBB post or somethin where he said he looked thro his photo albums and all of his friends were entagled in affection. As long as it aint gay, you should be cool with it. It is just bein cool. Or you can confront em privately and tell him it makes you uncomfortable
 
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its happened to me once, but they where stoned so thats probably why. Its no big deal.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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so you dont think it could be the guy hearing stories about me and they try and disarm me or something?

talking to them privately wont make a difference cuz it happened 4 times when i never even seen the guy before. just wonder as to how to react to it if it happens again. like push the guy away or pretend its your best friend in the world you aint seen for ages or what?
 
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